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boyman25
November 19th, 2011, 09:10 PM
me and my friends have never done naything sexual before but im tmepted to ask would you recomend it? Thanks

superstarB
November 19th, 2011, 09:12 PM
Im in the same boat as you to ask someone too, we should make sure the person we ask is really close friend of ours

hope i helped

(yay first poster)

boyman25
November 19th, 2011, 09:13 PM
thanks

superstarB
November 19th, 2011, 09:14 PM
no problem :)

Mysterious Skin
November 19th, 2011, 10:15 PM
If you thInk it won't damage your friendship go ahead and ask

Matt_is_Awesome
November 19th, 2011, 10:18 PM
mayve if you wanna risk taking that step go ahead but if u dont wanna risk your friendship you by being awkward and stuff after the fact dont do it

Compy386
January 22nd, 2012, 01:31 AM
Well, I haven't had the guts so far, so I can't really offer an informed opinion, but I would say go for it.

Tanner123
January 22nd, 2012, 01:35 AM
Do it I did and the risk was worth it, don't worry if he's a good friend even if he says no it shouldn't hurt your friendship

Tonebone88
January 29th, 2012, 05:02 PM
If I ever got a good opportunity I would definitely do something sexual with a friend.

Jupiter
January 29th, 2012, 05:06 PM
only ask if you think that it won't ruin your guy's friendship.

Biscuithead13
January 29th, 2012, 09:23 PM
Haha I'm in the same boat too I know exactly how you feel.

boyman25
February 5th, 2012, 08:29 PM
yeah that i thought about i know its been awhile lol i havent been o n here in forever, but i think doing anything like that with our friends would be pretty stupid and could mess up your friendship and hurt you in the future so... forget that.

Werwer12
February 5th, 2012, 11:02 PM
Text him and ask him if he would ever consider it, if he says no just say someone took ur phone and it wasn't u!

Auzzie 94
February 6th, 2012, 02:35 AM
mayve if you wanna risk taking that step go ahead but if u dont wanna risk your friendship you by being awkward and stuff after the fact dont do it

^Very common answer and i'd consider what he has said. Me personally I've had many sexual relationships with my female friends and haven't lost a friend yet and we've all stayed friends, i'd say it's strengthened my relationships with all of them. Plus it's good to have someone for when you get a little horny :) first time I did it I was around 14 maybe and basically I had a girl who's a friend come over after school.. she went to change in the bathroom to get out of her uniform and into casual clothes and I instantly got horny, so when she came out I had porn up on my computer screen and I was jacking off she apologised for walking in but I just said it's ok come help.. she smiled.. but she looked shy and awkward but she helped out. It was really fun and I hang with her alot and talk to her alot still (we're both 18 now), occasionally we'll have sex. So it's up to you how you want to approach a friend/your friends. But imo it's worth it. Good luck man.

cody s
February 6th, 2012, 03:23 AM
go ahead

cody s
February 6th, 2012, 03:23 AM
whats the worst they can say or do

AndyG1488
February 6th, 2012, 03:36 AM
Give it a shot

pankakeman
February 6th, 2012, 08:18 AM
I was in the same position. But it seemed the only signs he would give me is when he wanted them. He used to kiss me randomly and sometimes even rub me about (so hard to explain that without sounding retarded >.> lol) but if I ever did that to him usually he'd say it was gay and fir me to stop. We had our moments, but if he/she is something like that you should be a bit careful of how you word it, say it, etc.

Say It Aint Tim
February 6th, 2012, 12:09 PM
mae sure you guys are on the same page first

RickyCurious
February 6th, 2012, 12:49 PM
mae sure you guys are on the same page first

agree dont want it to go bad

jamesscott
February 6th, 2012, 03:30 PM
if u think u can trust them sure why not if u never ask ull never know. Good luck

matt25
February 6th, 2012, 04:15 PM
maybe wait until an opportunity like a sleepover or school trip happens

Christheman
February 6th, 2012, 04:18 PM
Only really good friends

branman2000
July 5th, 2012, 11:42 PM
go for it

loganbenson
July 6th, 2012, 12:06 AM
Depends how comfortable you are with it.......

whiteyrhys
July 11th, 2012, 08:00 AM
You would have to be very careful and take precautions when asking him - try to build it into something else, i.e. talk about a video or something you have watched about a guy fooling around with his friend - ask him if he would ever do something like that, maybe even say that you wouldn't mind doing it.

Make sure that you can trust him enough to not go 'blabbing' and calling you gay etc...

Sean4U
July 11th, 2012, 09:46 AM
If you are thinking about it obviously it is something you want to do...but as said be careful, make sure that you won't loose his friendship if you do and he reacts badly...talk about things....about what he watches, if he watches porn....did you get any signs from him possibly that makes you want to do this?....I have yes, and curiosity is normal....it is something we all think about actually

scer123
July 11th, 2012, 02:14 PM
Depending how close you guys are. If you guys normally talk about sexual related thing, then maybe. Be careful, cause you dont want to ruin your friendship.

Mynick
July 11th, 2012, 03:14 PM
In a normal conversation just try to talk about the subject, you can start with small questions/phrases, like 'Hey i'm really hard' and stuff like that. If he reacts ok try to invite him to go the your home or so.

WakaWaka
July 11th, 2012, 04:34 PM
Hint something when you are talking to them/him

cody999
July 11th, 2012, 04:36 PM
go ahead if you wan't to but that could hurt your friendship

Maximum_A
July 11th, 2012, 10:46 PM
Go for it but make sure you both won't it

Ben5991
July 11th, 2012, 11:33 PM
I would make sure you and the said person or persons are really close before you get sexual. It has the potential to ruin your relationship.

AndroidGayTeen
July 19th, 2012, 03:16 PM
idk ... talk to him or something, if you both agreed just do it!
Good luck on that one!

Ginganinja
July 19th, 2012, 06:32 PM
as long as you both are ok with it i say go for it ive done it and its a lot of fun but very different

cameron123
July 20th, 2012, 02:30 AM
i cant say i havent had the guts but ask if you dont think it will ruin the friendship

Jay_Team_Swagg
July 20th, 2012, 03:46 AM
Make sure you're all up for it. Otherwise, go for it.

Jesse17
July 20th, 2012, 07:03 AM
you can ask your friends on the assumption that they will do it with you, and wont damage your friendship.

AndCuriousGuy16
July 20th, 2012, 04:37 PM
Make sure that he is somebody you can trust. Also only do it if the both of you agree to do it. Otherwise have fun!

minecraftmstr
July 21st, 2012, 07:13 PM
i would ask
im about to too

president1234
July 21st, 2012, 07:28 PM
As long as your within the same age range.