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ThatScience
November 19th, 2011, 06:11 PM
... And I came out to two friends. Although, now, I feel like I've rushed things and that I don't really know.
I hate having to backtrack and undo some conversations.
I just feel awful now and wish that I hadn't said anything.
But, in a way, it's good. I mean... It's out in the open now and I can talk about it with them. A luxury which I was deprived of before now.
What do you think I should've done?

PS The two people I can out to we're gay/bi.

enzenzz
November 19th, 2011, 06:17 PM
The good thing with being bi is that you are not limited to a certain gender.

I don't think they would mind if you change your mind though

Fiction
November 20th, 2011, 01:08 PM
Well, to be honest at the end of the day your sexuality is not the end of the world. I mean, there are people who come out as gay and end up liking people of the opposite sex and vice versa. As a teenager it's not exactly fixed, so I wouldn't worry about it.

Just "go with the flow" as it where :P You're attracted to who you're attracted too, does the gender really matter?

At least coming out as bi you have the freedom to explore both now? It doesn't mean you have to decide which you prefer yet, or even ever.