Help with boyfriend

[Angel Boy]

I need some advice about my boyfriend(Lord of this Void)
As some of you might know he has been through alot of shit
Hes taken a turn to the worse again:(
He started cutting and smoking again,when I sleep over(which I do almost every day) he cries in his sleep
He cares alot about his friends and would cross oceans and split mountains to help them if they need it
The problem with that is that he worries too much about them,it has gotten to the point that he cant even hear the names on two of them without freaking out(uncontrollable breathing,crying and sometimes cutting to make it stop)
It pains me to see him like this,I try to be there for him but I feel that it isn't enough
He is seeing a psychologist but the sessions usually just last 10-20 minutes with the psychologist asking if hes alright,him saying yes then they agree on when the next session should be,hes not good at all but there is no more psychologists where we live

What should I do?:(

[PoseidonX43]

I need some advice about my boyfriend(Lord of this Void)
As some of you might know he has been through alot of shit
Hes taken a turn to the worse again:(
He started cutting and smoking again,when I sleep over(which I do almost every day) he cries in his sleep
He cares alot about his friends and would cross oceans and split mountains to help them if they need it
The problem with that is that he worries too much about them,it has gotten to the point that he cant even hear the names on two of them without freaking out(uncontrollable breathing,crying and sometimes cutting to make it stop)
It pains me to see him like this,I try to be there for him but I feel that it isn't enough
He is seeing a psychologist but the sessions usually just last 10-20 minutes with the psychologist asking if hes alright,him saying yes then they agree on when the next session should be,hes not good at all but there is no more psychologists where we live

What should I do?:(

Support him, help him when he needs it, talk to him, ask about his problems, comfert him if needed, the most importent thing is to never give up on him! :hug:

I know the feeling of being helpless, not being able to help at all, i thought giving up was the easy road, but i was wrong for thinking like that. And i know that you love and care about him, only want the best for him, but all you really do is help him through the rough times! :hug:

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[Quick_Sylver]

Try to get him to seperate from his friends a bit. Emotionally wise, and physically if possible. Help him try to realize him freaking out over another person's problems is helping nothing, just complicating it more, and if he can calm himself to help them, he'll be able to help them more, by being able to think clearly.

Good luck.

[teendanica]

Try to talk to him about his problems.. Give some words of encouragement.. And most of all, bring him to church. God is always there for us. And if your boyfriend really loves you, then he'll fix himself.

[Angel Boy]

Thank you for the advice guys *hug*
Aura:I wont give up on him :)
Sylver:Ill try to separate him from them a little bit and try to make him realize that :)
Danica:I will talk to him,I will not bring him to church as I renounced my faith years ago and he has never had any and neither of us have any wish for any God or Gods in our lives,and after experience I know that things like this wont "fix" themselves just like that,losses like his will not go away as easy as the snap of a finger,and thinking that he will "fix himself" if he loves me would only damage both off us.But thank you for trying to help :)

[PoseidonX43]

Aura:I wont give up on him :)

:hug: if you need anything! feel free to msg me!

[Quick_Sylver]

Thank you for the advice guys *hug*
Aura:I wont give up on him :)
Sylver:Ill try to separate him from them a little bit and try to make him realize that :)
Danica:I will talk to him,I will not bring him to church as I renounced my faith years ago and he has never had any and neither of us have any wish for any God or Gods in our lives,and after experience I know that things like this wont "fix" themselves just like that,losses like his will not go away as easy as the snap of a finger,and thinking that he will "fix himself" if he loves me would only damage both off us.But thank you for trying to help :)

:hug: To quote Aura, feel free to send me a message if you need to vent.

[Jupiter]

Being his boyfriend, you need to be there for him, talk to him, and really try to convince him to stop all these things or at least talk about them.

[teendanica]

You're welcome. Hoping the best for the two of you. :)

[Fiction]

Well, instead of telling the psychologist that he's alright, maybe he should try telling him that he's not? The psychologist can't help if he doesn't know what's wrong.

I understand that it's hard to tell professionals about this type of thing, so maybe get him to right down everything he is feeling in a letter? Then give it to the psychologist. No psychologist can help if you say there's nothing wrong.