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ThatScience
November 18th, 2011, 09:01 AM
I just told one of my friends that I'm bisexual.
And it's weird.
I thought it would be a big cathartic moment but it's not.
I feel sick. And meh. I thought it would be this great thing where I'd feel like a new person but instead I just feel awkward and selfish. :(
Slytherin_Prince
November 18th, 2011, 09:02 AM
Well, still, congratulations.
Isn't it better not to have it bottled up inside?
Give it some time. It'll probably get much better :)

Most sincerely,
Robert.
Abigballofdust
November 18th, 2011, 09:25 AM
Why do you feel selfish? What's selfish about coming out?
ThatScience
November 18th, 2011, 10:14 AM
Why do you feel selfish? What's selfish about coming out?

I dunno... I guess I just feel like my friends have had harder times coming out and I'm doing it so late...
Abigballofdust
November 18th, 2011, 10:20 AM
I dunno... I guess I just feel like my friends have had harder times coming out and I'm doing it so late...

Well, I think that's no reason to be sad about.
I mean, coming out isn't meant to be hard and hurt...
Anyways, I'm nearly 19 and have come out to only one guy so far. And it can't be even called a coming out since we both found ourselves on a gay community and decided to reveal each other's identities.
It's not mandatory to come out in your teens, do it when you feel like, it doesn't make you any worthless.
Fourth Dimension
November 18th, 2011, 04:25 PM
congrats first of all and as for how your feeling you shouldnt feel that was we all come out when we are ready you just wernt ready to do so when they did it me im not even fully out yet just to friends so dont even worry
blackpo
November 18th, 2011, 08:43 PM
congrats... idk but for some ppl they feel like you do then other fell a euphoria i guess its just on your values
Levy
November 18th, 2011, 08:48 PM
Congratulations, you have a big pair of Cojones. Not many have the guts to come out.
nameless12
November 19th, 2011, 01:48 AM
the exact same thing happened to me, some friends already knew i am bi and it does feel good, but i told this new girl friend that im bi and i don't know... it kinda feels a bit awkward some times too, i try to not make it like that but i guess it'll just wore out :)

maybe after some time and talking it will feel good and you'll feel more happy ;)
Thomas01
November 20th, 2011, 03:14 AM
Congrats. When I first came out to my BFFs, it felt weird at first but overtime i realized it was a good choice. Sometimes they give me dating advice, they talk about guys, and we joke around a lot. Give it some time and you'll get used to it. Congrats again
ThatScience
November 20th, 2011, 07:10 AM
I thought I was so sure. But now I don't know.
I only came out to two people and now I don't even know if I'm bi...
I've told them and I'm gunna wait until I have a clearer perspective on things.
Abigballofdust
November 20th, 2011, 12:32 PM
I thought I was so sure. But now I don't know.
I only came out to two people and now I don't even know if I'm bi...
I've told them and I'm gunna wait until I have a clearer perspective on things.

Well, you can always excuse and say you're really confused about your sexual orientation. Think nobody's gonna hate you because of that...