Why do boys feel the need to

[HeatherL]

why do boys feel the need to put there hand on the back of your head during oral? Seriously I know what to do, its pretty much an up and down motion. No need to help out.

[jessehs]

It's a control thing, I never do it I'd rather just relax but some of my friends do and that's the reason they gave me

[Neptune]

Yeah, it's all about control. Do they push your head down? Guys like to think they're superior in sex.

[vtRED]

why do girls rub there hands threw my hair when i eat them out... same reason why guys force it deeper into your throat.. if you dont like it say so, other wise it will happen every time you give head, just say your hurting me, and they will stop..

[HeatherL]

I figured it was a control thing. Just ask me thou, if it's want helps please the boy then I'm all for it. Maybe it was just a few bad expierences, made me think I was not doing a good job.

[Salader]

It's saying "Don't stop your almost there!" thing

[aero87dude]

Yeah, I always do that. But for me it's not a control "get down on it" thing... its more of a making them comfortable by rubbing my hands thru her hair kinda thing.

[aye_its_tyler]

sometimes the girl likes i cuz it tells them they're doing good, or the girl may not be doing it right so the guy wants to make them go faster

[Bryce-99]

I have never got oral sex but yeah I would say just a control thing just to show you not to go to fast or go faster

[kaiba]

Probably just to say how fast to go?

[Ender]

i tend to just rest it there and play with my partners hair, that way i feel involved :P

[Smith98]

I hate when guys do that... Makes me feel like I must do it rather than I want to do it

[White Stocking Cap]

Honestly there are lots of guys that don't do it. I don't for one, I feel like it's too controlling. I mean, heck I'm getting head, so why should I have to be superior, why can't I just be an equal.

Then I know what it's like to give head to a guy who does that. The first time I did, the guy put his hand on my head. I felt like I was being forced rather than, I wanted to make him feel good. So, I see it both ways, I suppose.

[Fruit_Tart.]

When that happens I think it's more to show that your giving really good head or they want you to go further, but they like how it feels ultimately.

[Levy]

So you don't get lost. After all, 5-11 inches is a long distance, your head might sway off course. Honestly, I don't really know.

[HeatherL]

Levy, that was funny as hell

[Tyler97]

I think some boys may think the girl won't like the taste and they hold the head to keep it in place.

[tardis20]

Its about control, and maybe hoping you'd take it in more than you are. This is an issue for my girlfriend, but franky, she knows I'm not stopping. The key is to not be too forceful.