paying for ever thing

[josh cassano]

so i always go to the movies with a girl but we arnt dating YET, so any way im paying for dinner, tickets, drinks, snacks and i was wondering do i have to pay for it all because we are not dating and i have spent over 600 dollars in the past month.

[imgonebyebye]

bro, you dont need to pay for everything girls do have money and an spend it just sayin

[PandaLeah]

we girls have money just explain to her, that you're broke, and that if she'd like to go do something she needs to pay her way..

[josh cassano]

yeah i still have shit load of money its just im gonna ask her out soon and i just need to know if some times i can ask her to pay

[Short Circuit]

yeah i still have shit load of money its just im gonna ask her out soon and i just need to know if some times i can ask her to pay

Just ask her to pay her share, nothing wrong with that as your not dating yet.

[aykancv]

I'm not talking for everygirl but do not forget that there are some girls outhere using our feelings for their wants... Being gentle and being a some-kind of blood bag is different. Be sure about your and her feelings and watch her behaviours carefully before paying anything... 600 Dollars is a big amount for somebody in our age... Dont Think that I'm mean there were and will be months I spend hundreds of dollars or on single present but I'm dating with my gf for 3 years and she does that too when it need to be done.

[CoolGuyXD]

I was the same with my girlfriend and still kinda am. I payed for everything. but she offers sometimes so we split it. if im low on money i tell her and she pays. If she offers say thanks. Or just be like do you mind splitting it. she will understand

[aero87dude]

Yeah man, see im from the south so the general feeling is "Oh the guy always pays"... I DO NOT always pay. The way that I see relationships, each person should give their whole heart and should help each other out. I have had months where my girl pays for my phone bill and I can't tell you how many times I have filled her car up with gas and whatnot... Just try to make it an equal thing where instead of it being a special circumstance when she has to pay, make it a special one when you surprise her and pick up the tab.

[ImCoolBeans]

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[Levy]

Some girls are very demanding, and believe they should be treated like princesses.

[brianwhitskey24]

stop spending your money on girls dude.. if you are not dating why you are paying are you getting something in return like sumthing physical common if you are going out as a friend i think you 2 should pay your own bills or get her to date you but stop wasting money you are giving wrong intention for girl and you will be used for your money. one more tip even if your dating no need to pay every time tell her to pay bills other times.