Pushing the issue

[ThatScience]

I'm probably bi. I haven't come out yet but I probably am.
However, when ever I mention sexuality non-commitally, one of my friends who is gay will look me dead in the eye (something which he doesn't do to anyone. He's shy) and ask me, "so... ARE you gay?" or words to that effect. I'm not sure if he really wants me to be gay or if he thinks I am and just wants me to get it over with.
What do you guys make of this situation?

[Fourth Dimension]

hmmm not sure what to say to this but i do have to say that since he is gay he would be a really good person to go to for advice and such about sexuality cuz hes already been down the road you are on and i think with him questioning you he might have an idea that you are and he might wants you to get it over with maybe not maybe he wants you to be maybe not no one can read minds but im sure he would be a good person in the advice area hes been through it he could maybe help you and no im not telling you to come out to him or anything im just giving some advice and own observations from what youve said and from expierances ive gone through i wish you luck with how you end up handling this situation=)

[jimmys1212]

I came out to friends that were girls first.
Then slowly to other guys

[logan fields]

maybe he likes you and is hoping that you are gay to idk

[Short Circuit]

maybe he likes you and is hoping that you are gay to idk

Thats what it sounds like to me too, he maybe wants to be more than friends once you do come out, dunno, maybe he wants you to confirm what he has suspected for a while. Cant help really, its up to you to decide if your gay or bi.

[aye_its_tyler]

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[Abigballofdust]

Thats what it sounds like to me too, he maybe wants to be more than friends once you do come out, dunno, maybe he wants you to confirm what he has suspected for a while.
This.
It doesn't have to be a relationship rightaway but he might just want someone else gay.
I just came out to a bi guy I know and I simply don't want to have a relationship with him because he doesn't attract me, but having somebody knowing is much easier. Same for him.

[nameless12]

like stefano said, maybe he just wants to have another gay or bi friend. my opinion is that you should first think about if you really are bi or gay and after that you can ask your gay friend in a non direct way, what his intentions are :)

[ThatScience]

We have 2 gay/bi friends.

[NHSoccerjock]

i dont see the big problem here.. i mean gay guys can usually tell who else is gay.. comes from looking at guys all day. lol so he probably nos that ur gay, or at least bi.. so theres really no problem here unless u dont want him to know. then just keep doing wat ur doing, and stay in the closet.. if not, and u tell him ur gay, thatll prob bring u two closer.. he may even like u, which is y hes always asking..if u dont like him that way, or just dont wanna be in a gay relationship yet, just let him no and he prob wont push things.. so theres no problem here! just tell him :P