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spw184
November 16th, 2011, 10:14 PM
Ok, I dont post here very often, and I only log on when I NEED it.

I am a gay highschooler (in the closet) , and like any highschooler, I have crushes. One of those crushes has started to try and be friendly with me. We have a lot of body touching, now wether or not this is intentional by him, by me, or over exaggerated by my mind, I can not say. (Ok, actually I know for a fact that on several occasions I have touched him for prolonged amounts of time without a good reason ._.)

Anyways, I have recently been thinking, does this guy like me?

I have been pretty antisocial with him, because I don't want anything to slip, but he keeps coming back trying to talk to me. When I walked out of school today, he was with his group of friends and asked me if I ever thought about experimenting with guys, after a shock and a response of "Uhh... no..." he passed it off as a joke. Before I left for my bus, I hugged all my chick friends (Gotta have fag hags eh?) and he did somthing Iv'e never had a guy do: He asked me for a hug too. So, as you would expect, I gave it to him.

After this he asked me to go over to the college campus (Across the street) to hang out until his bus came (My school is a secondary public school from the other schools, so buses arrive 30 minutes to 2 hours after school gets out { I ride the public bus}) I agreed, and while we where talking he asked me somthing that I cant say on here without getting T & C hammered. So, to not get banned, lets play fill in the blanks.

Him: Do I look like fake ______ to you?
Me: No, *grabs hair* .you look like it.

This didn't strike me as abnormal untill about 20 minutes later on my way home. I touched his hair, (in a not so straight way xD) and he said nothing about it!! I got thinking about it, but he always talks about guy on guy in my classes, although it Is mainly in jokes.

As far as I know, he is straight.

Is he using jokes and such as an outlet for his homosexual feelings? Is he bi? Is he experimental? Do you think he's into me? Am I just toning this up to be more than it really is because I like him and I want to beleive that he likes me too?

Hajara22
November 16th, 2011, 10:54 PM
ranter... lol. um sounds like he is curious to say the least. invite him somewhere private and chat about it a little. you dont have to reveal anything you dont want to...

Fourth Dimension
November 17th, 2011, 04:39 PM
Yeah just hang out sometime and talk like the person above me said and you dont have to say anything you dont want to who knows what could happen it maybe could end up being a good thing

Can'tHelpIt
November 18th, 2011, 06:56 AM
Wait his hair up here or his hair down there?

nameless12
November 19th, 2011, 02:50 AM
hmmm... honestly i don't know what to think, though i would say that he is curious. i too say that you should talk to him kind of private and talk about all that stuff to settle things :P, maybe he can tell you the truth.

mrmooers
November 19th, 2011, 03:04 AM
he likes you

NHSoccerjock
November 19th, 2011, 04:44 PM
it seems to me like hes into u.. or at the very least curious and wants to fool around... otherwise he wouldnt ask if u wanted to experiment with guys. i would just say to talk to him in private about it, if u wanna be direct.. there r only 2 things that could happen.. either he gets with u or he rejects u.. or u could be a little more manipulative/indirect and start making things a bit more gay and close and sexual between u too.. more talking, dirty jokes, questions, touching, stuff like that.. kinda show him that u like him, and see wat happens

Polishbum
November 19th, 2011, 06:09 PM
hes looking to experiment, and he doesnt have the courage to ask one of his friends, so he is looking for options. and as far as the hugs goo, im straight and some guy friends i hug as well, nothing meant in anyway

Antagonist
November 20th, 2011, 12:33 AM
He sounds soo into you. Hugs are normal, but the hair touching, body touching, and experimental questions are bi/gay things. Hang out in private and talk about it. If you end up going out or just being freinds with benefits, hes bi or gay :D

Fruit_Tart.
November 20th, 2011, 01:21 AM
It's possible he's into you, but take it slowly. You don't wanna risk a friendship with him. Ask questions. Doesn't hurt to ask. Maybe you'll get into a deep conversation, leading to another thing, and another.

See how this week goes for you and build off of that. :)
Best if luck! :D