Death of a girlfriend

[Jakezilla]

Well, I finally got a girlfriend for the first time in a while. I loved her so much, we were friends for ages. i can't believe she is gone. there is so much i could have told her, so many movies we never finished, so many sims to create, so many games to play. the time i spent with her was incredible. I felt happy. now I feel horrible. I feel that if we weren't meeting at the movie theater, the car wouldn't have hit hers, and killed her. i feel like its all my fault :'( i literally feel like dying, just so she won't be alone

[Elenin]

Sorry for your loss. Blame the idiot who crashed into your girlfriend's car. If you try to blame yourself, you're only putting yourself down. The best thing you can do for yourself is to move on after a bit and hopefully meet someone else.

[Bob_]

Sorry for your loss, man...

You can't blame yourself for her being gone, though... Freak accidents happen to anyone, the fact that you were involved doesn't make it your fault. I was in a car crash over the summer that could have easily killed me and everyoone in both cars, and it was an accident. I can't relate to losing a girlfriend, but I've lost people close. So I can tell you, it's okay to grieve, just don't hurt yourself over it. It's not what she would have wanted, you'll be missed by everyone else, too. There's nothing you can do to cahnge the past, just don't forget that you couldn't have prevented it. Again, I'm really sorry for that to happen to you, and you'll see her again when your time on this world is over. Best of luck, and remember that others are here to help you whenever you need it.

[Jupiter]

Stop. Breathe.

You had NO IDEA the car was going to hit her. I am so sorry for your loss. You can find another person. I know this may sound rude, but maybe if you weren't made to be, this was showing that it didn't work. sorry man.

[Oath]

I'm so sorry about your loss. I can tell that you really loved her. It is time to accept her death. Love and honor her by spirit. Think of all the nice memories that the two of you had together.

Don't think about taking your own life. I'm sure that she would not be happy to see you do that. She would want you to live your life happy and healthy.

[kjr32legendracer]

Sorry for your loss guy i wish i could offer more to help you but i have no idea what its actually like to go through what your going through but i can say this i am sure she knows it wasnt your fault and she wouldnt want you to be upset at yourself over it. Just remember the good times you had with her in the short time you were with her. Instead of mourning her passing celebrate her life and to good memories you two had together and in time when your ready to move on dont hold yourself back because you know she would want you to be happy and move on with your life, its not like you would be forgetting her so dont think that way.
Remember she is in a place of peace and happiness where the only tears she cries are tears of happiness and she will always be with you in your heart and will be looking over you keeping you safe, i bet you have your own gaurdian angel sitting on your shoulder.

[Ureadmyusername]

Sorry for your loss man, Life is that someone dies sooner, someone later. We all will be going through some hard times...

Also if i can help anything feel free to pm me

[Iris]

That's a terribly painful thing to suffer through. I can't imagine how horrible you must feel. I'm so sorry for your loss.

That being said, killing yourself would really accomplish nothing. I bet if she loved you as much as you loved her, she'd kick your ass for saying that. You feel miserable now, and that's completely understandable, but your life is not over. You'll never forget her, and you'll feel the pain of losing her for a long while, but slowly the pain will lessen. You have your whole life ahead of you. So much potential. There are billions of women in the world; I'm sure you'll find someone who'll make you happy. Happiness hasn't left with your girlfriend. It will get better, alright? Hold on now, and you won't regret it in the future.