Bob_
November 15th, 2011, 07:58 PM
**WARNING: HUGE WALL OF TEXT, BUT PLEASE READ**
I'll start off by asking the base question of all this. Who, if either, is the better choice for me?
Alright, I can't say I've ever had this problem before, which is why I'm asking y'all. So I'll call these two girls L and M, relevant to their names. L is a grade above me, but we're upperclassmen, so I don't see that being an issue. However, there's that whole, "when she starts college" feeling with that. But, she's the kind of person who wears black, white, and red most days. But if you know anyone like that, they're quite often happy, bubbly, cheery people. And she definately is, ALWAYS laughing, great sense of humour, and not a lot can stop her from being happy. She's the only thing that makes one of my classes tolerable.
Cons are that I don't really know what she does for fun, or how she stands on issues like smoking (weed and cigarettes), drinking, sex, and those kinds of things you're around daily in high school. She's not a crazy, outgoing, 'partypartyparty' type, like I quite often enjoy being outside of school. We don't listen to the same kind of music, but that wouldn't really be an issue. I'm pretty sure she likes someone, but I'm not sure at all who that is.
Now for M. She's a bit short, which I like. She's in my grade, less than a month older than me. She's just nice-looking, I can't really think of a better word for it. She's got a lot in common with me that L doesn't, such as sports and activities for fun(partypartyparty!). She's got a parent situation a lot like mine, where they're not good at being parents. She's more outgoing. She just decided not too long ago that after a long time liking a guy who kept playing her. She's a nice person, but can be emotional. She can be flirty, and this makes me wonder if she's always like that.
Cons of M... She's always in some sort of issue with drama, and I avoid that. She's the 'preppy-er' type, so it's more in public with her. She's got HUGE trust issues, and won't even trust herself. I talk to her once every few days, and I'm always trying to make her happier. She's a pessimist to the end (Which might as well be soon to a pessimist). I'm an optimist, and I just try to bring hapiness to everyone. She's like NEVER truely happy. I've been kind of friens with her for a while, but I never really got to be around her a lot.
I know it seems like I should go with L at first, but I didn't really know her well until this school year. Plus, there's just this thing with M, I can't even explain it.
THANK YOU if you managed to read that all. I wouldn't want to if I were you, but I needed to get the differences out there. =)
I'll start off by asking the base question of all this. Who, if either, is the better choice for me?
Alright, I can't say I've ever had this problem before, which is why I'm asking y'all. So I'll call these two girls L and M, relevant to their names. L is a grade above me, but we're upperclassmen, so I don't see that being an issue. However, there's that whole, "when she starts college" feeling with that. But, she's the kind of person who wears black, white, and red most days. But if you know anyone like that, they're quite often happy, bubbly, cheery people. And she definately is, ALWAYS laughing, great sense of humour, and not a lot can stop her from being happy. She's the only thing that makes one of my classes tolerable.
Cons are that I don't really know what she does for fun, or how she stands on issues like smoking (weed and cigarettes), drinking, sex, and those kinds of things you're around daily in high school. She's not a crazy, outgoing, 'partypartyparty' type, like I quite often enjoy being outside of school. We don't listen to the same kind of music, but that wouldn't really be an issue. I'm pretty sure she likes someone, but I'm not sure at all who that is.
Now for M. She's a bit short, which I like. She's in my grade, less than a month older than me. She's just nice-looking, I can't really think of a better word for it. She's got a lot in common with me that L doesn't, such as sports and activities for fun(partypartyparty!). She's got a parent situation a lot like mine, where they're not good at being parents. She's more outgoing. She just decided not too long ago that after a long time liking a guy who kept playing her. She's a nice person, but can be emotional. She can be flirty, and this makes me wonder if she's always like that.
Cons of M... She's always in some sort of issue with drama, and I avoid that. She's the 'preppy-er' type, so it's more in public with her. She's got HUGE trust issues, and won't even trust herself. I talk to her once every few days, and I'm always trying to make her happier. She's a pessimist to the end (Which might as well be soon to a pessimist). I'm an optimist, and I just try to bring hapiness to everyone. She's like NEVER truely happy. I've been kind of friens with her for a while, but I never really got to be around her a lot.
I know it seems like I should go with L at first, but I didn't really know her well until this school year. Plus, there's just this thing with M, I can't even explain it.
THANK YOU if you managed to read that all. I wouldn't want to if I were you, but I needed to get the differences out there. =)