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newstormywilt
November 15th, 2011, 06:22 PM
I don't know what to do..

My dad and I have been on and off friends for a while, and it just kinda keeps geting worse. Like today... My friend and I walked home from school to my house to find that I hadn't had my house key, so I called my dad and asked him if he could come home for a sec to let me in.. He made this huge deal about it, then cussed me out. Like 30 min latter he came home and let us in, but yelled at me for forever about it. Right as my friend was just siting their! Latter before he left to go to work, he acted like nothing had happened..

Like normal, we were talking and makeing jokes about random crap.. Which led us into "play fighting" (like friends do...) lol But the thing was, I wasn't up to it. He kept hitting me and throwing punches, and grabbing my arm and holding it behind my back.. It was so annoying and the whole time I would say to stop.. but he wouldn't.. So I tried to play back but he kept pushing me around. So to get him away from me I kicked his leg. He went off at me and just went crazy! He took my cell, tv, computer, ect. (i shouldnt really be on now... lol) He told my friend to get out, but I made her stay.. He just went off at me for what seamed like forever, telling me to move out and that i'm a bitch. he even said he had wished he had never meet my mother, meaning i wouldnt be alive. over me kicking him to have him stop pushing and hiting me. then he asked ME, what was wrong with ME. Is he flipping crazy?!? to ask ME that?!? he even had pushed me into the hard sharp edge of the wall..

This happens all the time, he yells at me and just pushes me around. He tells me to leave, but if i try hel yell more... I don't know what to do... i have so much other stress in my life, and i have to come home to this...

I know a lot of other people have it so much worse, and for that; I'm so sorry. :( But I feel that it's good to vent, and just to let people know. I don't hate my dad, he just needs some help... like me... LOL

newstormywilt
November 15th, 2011, 09:10 PM
I just got off the phone with him, and all he could do was yell at me. And said when he gets home I have to clean the whole house. That he wants me to move out, he was being 100% for real with me. He was so mean, and the way he said it.. He knows my mom can't take care of me, she has her own life..

Oath
November 16th, 2011, 04:29 AM
I think this is just his way of trying to befriend you. Father's always want their sons to be men and to stand up for themselves. I think he is testing your manhood by play fighting and pushing you. My best advice for you is to play along with it for now. If it gets out of hand, be firm and have a sincere conversation with him. He's your dad so I don't think that he hates you and he just pushes you and does all of that for no reason. Any argument that you have with him, I'm sure it is valid. Fights can be resolved and any family matters you have can be talked about and worked out.