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Equinox
November 14th, 2011, 11:47 PM
Hey there guys.

So, it's a bit odd really. I've completely lost interest in girls. Very.. out of sorts for me.

I'd like to have a girlfriend again, sure, I mean. Hell, having a crush on someone is great. I was in a relationship for about a year, i'm 18, it was good. It ended bad. very bad, since then I just haven't been attracted to anyone, I'm picky as it is.

I've started university since the break up, I assumed that being in a new location and be surrounded by thousands of new people that there'd be someone i'd like, yet apparently not. It's a little bit depressing to tell the truth.

Now, I know it's probably the hangover affect from the bad break up, and I was crazy about the girl, I admit it. It's just seems to be dragging on a bit is all, it's been nearly 6 months!

I mean, I've been getting with girls, one night stands etc, but no one I actually fancy.

Like I said, it's all pretty depressing.

Bob_
November 15th, 2011, 12:01 AM
I know what you're saying. I had a relationship that lasted over a year that ended with me almost getting in a fight... So I know how hard it is to move on past a meaningful relationship. But I'll be honest with you- get over it, it's done. Obviously if they're able to move on, you should be able to, as well. You're going to be okay of you don't meet a girl you like, though. If your "soul-mate" isn't there, than so be it. There's countless more girls out there, you'll find the one you want eventually. I know there's a lot more to it than I had described, but the point is still ther. If you need anything else, don't hesitate to ask!