Thatonekid
November 14th, 2011, 07:32 PM
Okay, prepare for a wall of text. I'm looking for a lot of opinions, honesty please. Girls, does she really have feelings for me? Guys, is it worth it?
Okay, so this is a long story. I really like this girl, and we both really liked each other last year. I didn't ask her out because I couldn't date last year (parents didn't let me see girls because it was my first year at a new school and my grades were s**t.) So over the summer, she gets involved with this guy who is in our class, and I thought i was over her so I didn't think much of it. I didn't see her most of the summer and when we got back to school I fell in love with her again. I ended up telling her about a month into school and she was very reserved when she talked about it with me. At this point, she started talking to me a lot more and getting even more flirty. All the while she is still involved with this other guy. So day i wake up and she asks me if i wanted to go to a concert with her (just her). Long story short, I went with her and when we were walking through the crowd she grabbed my hand and we ended up making out at the concert. At this point she was really confused and told me that she still had feelings for me (that they came back at the end of the summer when she saw me too.) So I told her that she had to decide. She said that she chose him, so I went on with my life. I still like her, and last Friday we were at a party at my friends house for his birthday. When she gets there, she goes into full on flirt mode and we ended up hooking up again and cuddling at the end of the night. We talked on the phone for 3 hours last night and she is still super confused and doesn't know who she wants. What i'm thinking is that if she keeps coming back to me she obviously isn't happy with her boyfriend (she clearly isn't, she tells me that he doesn't treat her right and she thinks I would be a better boyfriend than him.) She still says that she is confused and I don't know what to do. Please help and if you made it to the end, I love you.
-Chase
Okay, so this is a long story. I really like this girl, and we both really liked each other last year. I didn't ask her out because I couldn't date last year (parents didn't let me see girls because it was my first year at a new school and my grades were s**t.) So over the summer, she gets involved with this guy who is in our class, and I thought i was over her so I didn't think much of it. I didn't see her most of the summer and when we got back to school I fell in love with her again. I ended up telling her about a month into school and she was very reserved when she talked about it with me. At this point, she started talking to me a lot more and getting even more flirty. All the while she is still involved with this other guy. So day i wake up and she asks me if i wanted to go to a concert with her (just her). Long story short, I went with her and when we were walking through the crowd she grabbed my hand and we ended up making out at the concert. At this point she was really confused and told me that she still had feelings for me (that they came back at the end of the summer when she saw me too.) So I told her that she had to decide. She said that she chose him, so I went on with my life. I still like her, and last Friday we were at a party at my friends house for his birthday. When she gets there, she goes into full on flirt mode and we ended up hooking up again and cuddling at the end of the night. We talked on the phone for 3 hours last night and she is still super confused and doesn't know who she wants. What i'm thinking is that if she keeps coming back to me she obviously isn't happy with her boyfriend (she clearly isn't, she tells me that he doesn't treat her right and she thinks I would be a better boyfriend than him.) She still says that she is confused and I don't know what to do. Please help and if you made it to the end, I love you.
-Chase