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BiBoy5674
November 14th, 2011, 06:15 PM
So for a very long time now i've been thinking about my sexuality. i know i like girls but i think i like boys too ... i haven't had a girlfriend in a very very very long time and i have never had a boyfriend so i don't know why i am questioning my sexuality, but i think about boys alot i'm always checking people out of both sexes. Also i know for a fact i would never give or have anal i think it is disgusting (just my opinion) i wouldn't even have it with a girl lol! but i really want kids and i want to have sex with girls ;) yes i'm a virgin and what...? :L as for doing things with a boy i have been thinking about that and i think i would make-out give HJ's and BJ's and stuff but that would be the most i would do :) i just want to know am i gay, bi or straight/curious ?

Thanks guys :)

BiBoy5674
November 14th, 2011, 07:00 PM
Also one more thing .. i know my name on here is BiBoy5674 but i have only put that as it is my assumption on my sexuality but i really am unsure on my sexuality as some of the other threads on here make me think different things ... confused.com :L lol :/

Can'tHelpIt
November 15th, 2011, 07:59 PM
Oh well um interesting ok here we go:

Right now your romantically attracted to guys and attracted both ways to girls. Well if you want to have kids and you're with a guy you can get a baby person and with a girl well thats easy. Anal is basically the main for gays to have sex and if you don't want to do that well sex is a part of life so that kind of makes it really hard and your attracted to girls all the way. So i would say you are Straight Curious.
Your Welcome. :P

Hajara22
November 15th, 2011, 08:19 PM
agree with straight curious. lol however the only person that can fully answer this is you. lol. you shouldnt worry about the titles that society puts on ppl and just be yourself.

willrod
November 16th, 2011, 02:41 AM
I think that you fall somewhere on the bi side, not fully gay, but not straight either. Don't worry about it too much- you'll find where you fit in time :) Also, as for not wanting to have anal- I think that a lot of guys are pressured into having anal sex from within the gay community. However, if you don't want to do it, you don't have to. There are all sorts of other things you can do with a guy :)

BiBoy5674
November 16th, 2011, 09:42 AM
Thanks for all your input it has really helped but ... There is one thing I forgot to mention I really like a guy at school he is gay from what my friends have told me and I think I could be in a relationship with a guy but not a long term relationship as I believe I could only spend my life with a women because like I said I want children and I love girls ;) so does that change anything?

Thanks again guy you are such a big help in my life :D