A night, not a life.

[ThatScience]

Here's the deal:
I can imagine a sexual relationship with a man but not a romantic one.
I watch gay porn but I don't notice guys I like in real life.
I can imagine romantic relationships with a woman.
Am I weird?
Where does this leave me? What does it all mean? What's your opinion?

[Veon]

You are normal, your kinda like me in a way. I'm straight, but sometimes my hormones find guys to be sexually attractive. So your kinda curious if you just imagine sexual relationships with guys. Do you feel like having sexual relationships towards women? Then you could just be curious.

[james wolf]

Yeah dude, I am the same. I couldnt really imagine myself loving another man for the rest of my life but I could a woman. This makes it awkward if I told anyone Im bi though...

[Can'tHelpIt]

This is how I used to feel ALL the time I really am grateful to VT it helped me find out who I really was :)

[ThatScience]

Yeah dude, I am the same. I couldnt really imagine myself loving another man for the rest of my life but I could a woman. This makes it awkward if I told anyone Im bi though...

Omg! I'm exactly the same! I feel like I shouldn't some out because it's sorta cheating. Y'know?

[Syvelocin]

After a while you'll know. All I want to tell you though is that it doesn't have to be exact. There are varying degrees of each sexuality, and the labels are there so you can pick the best one to use to communicate your interests to others. So, for instance, I'm not completely gay. But I'm no where near into guys enough to say I'm bi, I've been attracted to two guys before (fully. I've been attracted to guys emotionally much more than that). So, odds are, communicating my sexuality as lesbian is the most accurate, therefore it's the one I use. See what I mean? You don't have to be 100% percent to say you're straight or gay, and if you're 95/5 you're not really bisexual, but bisexuals can be 60/40 and don't have to be 50/50.