Losing my virginity to a friend...

[couplequestions]

Hey girls,
So I'm still at virgin and so is this really close female friend of mine. We're both 18 and first year university students (although at different ones). We have talked a lot about sex and stuff and even asked each other questions about our own sexualities. I haven't seen her since summer but I will at christmas and we talk online almost daily.
I'm wondering what you girls think of me potentially offering her to both lose our virginities to each other over the holidays

[Surferchic2362]

If you are friends and nothing more, don't do it. Everything will we ruined. You you see more between you two, go for it. Friends make the best lovers. Just think about it. Either someone will be hurt or you'll both be happy.

[Katiebabe98]

If you are friends and nothing more, don't do it. Everything will we ruined. You you see more between you two, go for it. Friends make the best lovers. Just think about it. Either someone will be hurt or you'll both be happy.

I totally agree. Bad idea unless you are ok with potentially ruining your friendship. Me and one of my good guy friends decided to try the friends with benefits thing (never had sex though) and it ruined our friendship. He got really jealous about other guys.. it was bad!

[VeggieVag]

chop off your balls and give them to her for christmas :d she will either rip off her clothes or run away... Or she might wanna see what it looks like....

GTFO :yawn:

[couplequestions]

do you think this really will ruin the friendship, because i really want to lose my virginity to her specifically

[Surferchic2362]

Yes. Sex changes how you feel towards someone. Stop and think how she might feel afterwards. Talk to her about it. Make sure you both know the consequences. Who knows, It could be a good thing. I hope so