Last Night

[xSebastian]

So yesterday I had posted that my friend was sleeping over and he insisted we compare and that I was very insecure. Well I faced my insecurities and showed him. All was cool until I woke up in the middle of the night. I don't know what got into me but I started to rub/caress his thigh. He woke up and put my hand on his penis. You can imagine the rest at your will.

This morning was very awkward. We barely said a word to each other, and he usually ALWAYS talks. I texted him and he didn't reply, which he normally always does. I feel like he's ignoring me and I just don't know what to do. I get anxiety very easily and now I feel like he's never going to talk to me again. What should I do? :\

[ElectronicAlex96]

Try to talk to him alone sometime. He might be feeling awkward and insecure just like you. Give it time, if he's really your friend, he'll get over it.

[CoolKid1230]

When you did speak did he seem mad or upset?

[Hajara22]

he is insecure too. give him time. that was a big thing for both of you it seems. everyone experiments sometime in their life...

[superstarB]

he just not kno what to think right now if u try to talk to him alone and see what u guys can do to make that not make it awkward around you too, he might just have anxiety also like you do

hope i helped

[Clawhammer]

Just don't bring it up and go on like nothing happened. Best way to get around an awkward situation until it isn't awkward anymore.

[hollisterboi95]

i have had the same thing happen, and it's probably because he feels the same way you do, i'm sure if you get together and talk about it, he will start talking to you again. Me and my friend still talk and are now cool with what happened, he might just be feeling awkward for now, give it some time. if you wanna talk or have any questions pm, or email, hope i helped!

[maddox]

He probably feels guilty or embarrassed about what you guys did. It's normal. You guys just need to talk it out...

[Mtc 10]

Thats what normally happens things get super awk.. bcuz u knw what u have done thts why i recommend not doing it. hurts in the long run

[libra210]

I dont think he's mad, I just think more of shock of what happened, it could of just been a first instinct to grab your hand, and thats why he feels bad

[you know103]

he probably feels akward and needs time

[Ivan09011995]

I think not should call him and have a one on one talk, and here what's on his mind

[Short Circuit]

He probably feels guilty or embarrassed about what you guys did. It's normal.

This, give him some time and space to figure out his feelings

[aero87dude]

This same exact scenario happened to me when I was younger with one of my best friends. I would NOT ignore it. Just get him to talk to you and then jokingly mention what happened. Say ya know "I can't believe we did that" and laugh about it. Just show him that you are still his amigo. I wouldnt harp on it, but just mention it, laugh about it, and move on. That way he will know that you are still there for him and want to be his friend even if that stuff happen(s/ed). It'll really be ok man.

[Can'tHelpIt]

Well you need to confront him like soon or you will just drift apart and eventually not be friends anymore

[TheUselessAndUnwantd]

ya dudde, all u can do is just give it time. iv been in similar situations. but with a girl, but she was my BEST FRIEND in the entire world, and after we did waht ever we got done doing. it would be awkward for a few days, usually she snapped right back into it and we were hanging out again, i would imagine its the same for guys lol, if he dosent snap back into it then try talking to him, im sure if he is your friend then he will talk to you

[CryWolf]

These situations are difficult man. I would try to talk to him. Don't confront, but just tell him you want to talk about it and that you still want to be friends regardless. He's probably feeling the same way and doesn't know how to deal with it either. He's probably feeling miserable and confused about things too. By getting it out there you guys can both have some closure. Don't pressure him though. If he doesn't wanna talk about it then you have to give him time and space. Just keep being his friend and realize that people process stuff differently. If you need to talk I'm sure any of us are willing to help any way we can :). Good luck bro!

[Polishbum]

just try talking to him, im guessing he enjoyed it and thats why he is not talking

[bwdude15]

These situations are difficult man. I would try to talk to him. Don't confront, but just tell him you want to talk about it and that you still want to be friends regardless. He's probably feeling the same way and doesn't know how to deal with it either. He's probably feeling miserable and confused about things too. By getting it out there you guys can both have some closure. Don't pressure him though. If he doesn't wanna talk about it then you have to give him time and space. Just keep being his friend and realize that people process stuff differently. If you need to talk I'm sure any of us are willing to help any way we can :). Good luck bro!

yeah...what he said ^^^

nice way of putting it bro :) haha

[SwimTech]

That happens a lot the first time people experiment/do something like that. Try to get some alone time with him and talk about it and decide whether it was fine, if you'll never talk about it, etc. Make sure he knows that you don't think he's weird about it or anything. Make sure he understands you were fine with it. Don't over-communicate with him though. Give him some time to gather his thoughts