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randy.boii
November 13th, 2011, 07:07 PM
idk i hate puberty cuz im bi and i keep getting like mood swings with who i want more, girls then guys and so on. and i just wish my body would make up its mind already.. anyone have this problem?

Jeremy95
November 13th, 2011, 07:21 PM
absolutely all the time. been like this for 3 years

xSebastian
November 13th, 2011, 07:24 PM
I never had that problem
I did however had a problem in accepting myself and who I like (I'm just gay)

hollisterboi95
November 13th, 2011, 07:26 PM
dude you're only 16(as i am too) and puberty is the cause of it, your hormones will start to settle soon though and it's normal i've felt like that at times too but trust me, it'll go away soon. if you have any questions or need someone to talk to i'm here for ya

randy.boii
November 13th, 2011, 07:29 PM
ive had these feelings isnce i was 12.. and i when i was a freshman in hs i dated this girl and dated her till the end of sophmore year and she helpt keep things at ease and i loved her but i needed to be alone to settle my life and everything and she said shed wait for me and promised me so much and now she called me the other day and told me shes seeing someone and she said shes really happy now (shes 2 years older then me so shes in college now) and all these feelings hit me again and i just cant take it anymore

xSebastian
November 13th, 2011, 07:34 PM
ive had these feelings isnce i was 12.. and i when i was a freshman in hs i dated this girl and dated her till the end of sophmore year and she helpt keep things at ease and i loved her but i needed to be alone to settle my life and everything and she said shed wait for me and promised me so much and now she called me the other day and told me shes seeing someone and she said shes really happy now (shes 2 years older then me so shes in college now) and all these feelings hit me again and i just cant take it anymore

Feelings of liking both genders?
It's perfectly fine, I don't think you should feel ashamed

randy.boii
November 13th, 2011, 07:38 PM
im not ashamned i feel alone and depressed

xSebastian
November 13th, 2011, 07:44 PM
im not ashamned i feel alone and depressed

Don't feel alone and depressed. As cliché as it sounds there are plenty of fish out in the sea.

Hajara22
November 13th, 2011, 08:51 PM
dont feel bad. i still cant figure out which i like more. i am with a male and happy however sometimes i wonder if things would be better with a female. though i think not. i am happy where i am with who i am with. he treats me good and loves me for me.. what more can i ask for...

superstarB
November 13th, 2011, 09:05 PM
i feel the same way dude

maddox
November 13th, 2011, 09:09 PM
You can't help who you like. Just go with it. No need to get hung up on labels...