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[randy.boii]

so im 16 and dated a 18 year old for 2 years and i broke up with her cuz i needed space cuz she was always around and i needed time to myself from my first amazing relationship.. now shes in college and has been drifting away from me and called me the other day and told me she has a boyfriend. and i couldnt stop crying that night and all my friends said why do u care u broke up with her! its kinda like no one understands how i feel because now its really over and im alone

[anonymous53]

I'm sorry dude, you messed it up. You can't be mad at her

[ImCoolBeans]

I've been in a similar situation; I know how it feels. I broke up with a girl after almost a year of having a great relationship because I also needed space. Two or three months later she got a new boyfriend and it hit me like a brick. The reason it hurts so much is because you now realize, consciously or not, that you can't have her anymore - she's someone else's.

The best advice I can give you is to try to let go and meet new girls. You won't be alone long, bud. Best of luck

[Jupiter]

Hey, if you loved her, you won't forget her.

I'm really sorry to tell you this news, but love doesn't go away. I'm not saying that you won't eventually stop loving her, but you will remember her. Maybe just go out on a few nights with some guys, go to an under-18 club, go to the movies, mall, you get the idea. The best thing you can do is move on. FIND SOMEONE NEW. I know it sounds rude of me, but dating someone who is in college is not the best idea. Although they love just like everyone else, they have other things to do, and they have wild parties (some do) and drink and do things that they do not mean.

Good luck, man.

[botwa]

you broke up with her because you wanted your space.
you have your space.
she's with some other guy. no need to be that disturbed. you got what you needed, she moved on.

if you love her I guess you should let her go on. let her be happy and be happy just because she is perfectly fine. just accept the situation.