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randy.boii
November 13th, 2011, 01:45 PM
wasnt the best week. so much happened... and when i told my dad i wanted to join the army marching band he was flipping out saying im thick headed and im going to die (i forgot the part where playing an instrament can get you killed) and my mom was the only one who told me to do what i believe in. has anyone else has one parent that shows they care about you and the other just doesnt seem to ever believe ur doing someting good?
botwa
November 14th, 2011, 03:12 AM
well basically my parents let me decide what to do/study but I can see they don't approve my choice.
every time I make a mistake on the path I've chosen and succeed anywhere else comes a great tirade that "MAYBE (oh wtf) you should admit that you're no good at this"
I hate it
the good thing about your parents is that you get 50/50
one half approves your decision and another doesn't
so try hard and if you succeed you will show that you've been right
if not... well that depends if your father likes to say "I told you so"
Sleepwalking
November 14th, 2011, 06:45 AM
Well, I only have my Dad, but he always puts my opinions and things I want to do down.
It's really unfair, being told by an adult that something you wanna do is stupid. Just makes me not want to do it.
botwa
November 14th, 2011, 07:28 AM
Well, I only have my Dad, but he always puts my opinions and things I want to do down.
It's really unfair, being told by an adult that something you wanna do is stupid. Just makes me not want to do it.

some adults put down the choices to make their children want to do something even more as they are usually stubborn but most of the times their "tactic" just doesn't work
Oath
November 16th, 2011, 04:42 AM
My father is my best friend in the world. He paid for my first tattoo. He bought me my first car. I have really intense/personal conversations with him. I love him so much.

I can't say the same for my stepmother. I haven't spoken to her in a couple months. I talk to her on the phone during each major holiday and I have a brief conversation with her. I really wish I could have the same relationship with her, as I do with my Dad but it is a long complicated story.