First kiss, advice?

[Gummi]

So today me and my girlfriend were texting and decided we wanted to start kissing. There is a slight possible problem. I've never kissed anyone, and neither has she. Since I've never kissed anyone, I don't know if theres a certain way to do it or something. I don't want to mess up on my first kiss, so I would like some tips. I'm pretty sure I know how to kiss, but I don't want to be wrong and look stupid.

Also do you stick out your lips a lot or just a little bit or none?
And how do we avoid bumping noses? lol I've seen it in movies and stuff it looked awkward haha.

Also we decided we'll kiss next time we see eachother, which is on Monday, so I need advice quickly. Thanks :yeah:

Edit: I've had my first kiss yesterday and it went great. I used some of the advice you guys gave me and it worked great. I also kissed her again today, and I'm getting better at it (so is she ;) ) Thanks for your advice, and I guess you can still leave advice I might need for the future. Thanks

[Abyssinian]

The second kiss I ever had I bumped noses with the guy, I felt so weird. But after years of that happening sometimes it's not weird anymore, it's just what happens! You can tild your head slightly to avoid that.

Unfortunately, I don't think there's really a way to describe how to kiss.. It comes with practice, and you and she will be able to do that pretty easily once you've had your first...

For now, all I can say is try it on the back of your hand! I know that sounds lame but I used to do it! Soft is the way to go!

Hopefully this helps a little.. Good luck! =D

[Jupiter]

My first kiss... wow.

Let's just say, just both tilt your head to the right, and, let the lips explore each other. You'll know if you're doing it right.

[LuckyLuke]

Hey Gummi!

You're not going to like my advice because, frankly, it'll seem like I'm offering nothing but the fact of the matter is this:

Everything you need to know how to do, your body already knows. Once you make that first motion in (and thats the hardest part) everything else will come naturally.

But I remember my first kiss, it was only a few months ago, and I know how difficult it seemed so I'll offer what I can:

- Lips SLIGHTLY protruding out. Not a lot, just a bit.
- Place your lips around either her upper or lower lip. Your choice!
- Gently pull away while lightly compressing your lips around one of hers when you feel the time is right (your body and mind will know when).

Here's the sticky that goes into detail for a French kiss:
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=13855

But, once again, I PROMISE it'll come naturally.

[The_Boss]

k so just kiss her neck first, then whisper in her ear to close her eyes and she should listen and think ur gunna kiss her, then whip out your penis and shove it in her mouth, she never saw it cuming (quite literally) and then u got ur first bj

[Love.Hate]

My advice, take it slow and see what comes naturally :)



Dont stress about it too much, its one of those 'in the moment' things

[Thatonekid]

If you stress, you will screw up. And even if you do, you are young and it really shouldn't matter. It's all very natural, and you will catch on really quickly, don't sweat it!

[biffen94]

Don't sweat it! :) That's my best advice. Feeling comfortable before leaning in is probably the only issue that could "screw things up", and if you do screw up, like, kiss her too hard or whatever, hey, it's her first kiss too! :) I'm sure she'll enjoy it as long as you don't bite her or something haha!

[mike3747]

just go with the flow thereres nothing too it theres french kissing but kissing is normal if she starts kissing you in the lips just kiss back the thing is kissing is normal i kissed my girlfreind brittney on my lst date with her this saterday wich it lead to sex but if you want advice there is nothing i can teach you but dont force kissing it will come too you got that

[Salader]

I can't stress how important this is: Don't smack your noses

[oceandude33a]

its kinda hard to discribe. you kinda get the feel for it as you do it more offten, just try not to head butt her. i know for mine it was very awkward, especially after. we didnt know what to do, so we just kissed agian... -_-

[triaa]

It is not that difficult. first time i had so much difficulty cause i didn't know how to move your lips there or touch tongue or not. but now i learned it. by the way it is nice that you went good on first time.

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[Carlyle]

k so just kiss her neck first, then whisper in her ear to close her eyes and she should listen and think ur gunna kiss her, then whip out your penis and shove it in her mouth, she never saw it cuming (quite literally) and then u got ur first bj

Can you read? He's not asking about whipping it out and getting a blowjob, he's asking about his first kiss... Just don't bump noses and you should be fine.

[Dentist101]

I think that it will come easily. I think that if you bump noses, well, it happens. my first kiss was with my girlfriend and it was super awkward. I am still with her after almost a year.