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scott757
November 12th, 2011, 08:14 PM
Ok so there is a girl in the year below me in school who I talk to quite a lot. Ever since I met her I've liked her.
I was texting another friend last week who is a girl and she said she'd chat with her and ask her about who she likes yada yada yada... aaanyway. She came back to me saying that she said that "I am an amazing friend but she feels like we are more than friends"
Where would I go from here....
Thanks for any help.
Scott
phantomnull
November 12th, 2011, 08:37 PM
Just ask her how she feels. I'd rather hear it from her than to have my friend go back and forth. If you've played telephone, then you know things get left out and mis-communicated lol. Hope this helped :D
Jupiter
November 12th, 2011, 08:47 PM
To be honest, the only way to go from there is to talk to her about it. :) Good luck!
Hajara22
November 13th, 2011, 09:38 PM
just ask her. might have a very fulfiling relationship there...
Veon
November 13th, 2011, 09:39 PM
Talk to her! Now or never!
scott757
November 14th, 2011, 07:34 PM
Thanks guys :) I am sorta really nervous when it comes to asking anyone out. This is how weve ended up being really good friends in the last couple of years. I am worried incase I have left it too long, I hope not!!
But going by the way we chat in school (walking out together after bands, really good conversations) I can see that there is clearly some connection there.
There was one day when there was a few of us walking out and one guy said the steriotypical "hey, you two should go out!" Lets just say we oth managed to avoid answering him (I pretended to trip to avoid any tension). Although when he said it I did sorta give a galnce over to her.
I do think my main issue here is nerves and overcoming that would be difficult. Any idea of how I could mabey like ask her to go somewhere "as friends" and see where it goes from there.
Aa you can see, relationships (well starting of) is not my strong point...
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