everyone hates me

[green]

so everyone hates me. Some are very forward about it and some just fuck around and pretend. The will talk to me if i talk to them but if i stop talking to them they just walk away. I log on msn or facebook and none of my supposed "friends" talk to me. I never get invited to anything, ill spend my entire weekend just going to work and coming home and sitting around and ill go on facebook and all the people i thought liked me are all talkin about how great the party was or how great it was to go to a movie with all their friends. Is there something wrong with me that makes people hate me? If anything its because im very outspoken. I like to voice my opinion and dont take shit for telling the truth. maybe thats why, maybe i should just not talk. Maybe i should just not give a shit and use the spare time to prepare for things in the future. To become extremly fit for the army, to spend more time on math and make my mum proud (haha yea thats never gonna happen) all my friends have talked about the first time they had a drink or something at a party and stuff. My first drink was a can of beer in the fridge when i had the house to myself when my parents were at a party. I need to get out of this place, I want to put my mark on the world so that people respect me. I cant handle the atmosphere of a private school and having to act like the respectable young man my parents want me to be. Maybe it would be different if I had grown up on a defence base in a small country town. I dont know and I dont know what im going to do about myself. Even my parents, hate me and its something i cant take, i cant take any of this. what can i do about this? so far the anwser is nothing.

[Ambrosia]

Well, it's never good to be too outspoken. I know people say it's good to voice your opinion but, if by some chance, you are pretty much telling people, "That shirt is god aweful hidious. Your nose is too big. I hate that band, because of -insert long rant here- and it doesn't matter if you like them!", then I recommend stopping. I see too many people lose friends over this. Just be friendly, and perhaps invite someone out somewhere with you. Break the ice.

[green]

Thats the thing, i like being out spoken and letting people know how i feel, i try not to say things that people will hate me for, but i just cant help it when people are acting like fucking morons to me. also i have invitied people places, they always have an excuse as to why they cant do so and then they always put on facebook "going to such and suchs house this weekend was so much fun"

[Surferchic2362]

The truth hurts. People don't want to hear it all the time. My brother is the same way. He doesn't suger coat anything. He tells it like it is, but he is nice and sincere. You just gotta know when and when not to speak your mind.