Should I ask her?

[Gummi]

So I have a girlfriend, and we've been dating for 2 months (I've also known her for 3 years) I've been looking around on here, and I figured out that a lot of girls masturbate (maybe even as many as guys) Well I would really love to know if my girlfriend masturbates. Shes 13, I don't know if that is too young for a girl to have masturbated already, but idk I've seen 13 year old girls on here who do. We've never done anything sexual (cuddling is closest) and I doubt she has done anything sexual with a guy before. So I don't know if I should ask her if she does or ask her best friend or something. Please help me out, idk what to do, and what is the worst thing that could happen if she doesn't and thinks I'm wierd. Also she doesn't know I masturbate, and we don't talk about sexual stuff.
Thanks :wub:

[libbie]

if the topic of masturbating comes up some how just randomly ask her and if she says yes she does then just say something like yea i do to, thats wat my ex bf did 2 me:) if she doesnt answer drop the subject and try bringing it up later:)
good luck

[Jaden Harlowe]

Just cuddle her, make her feel comfortable and just drop it in.

[dkp123]

what do you want to know? it isn't clear?... if you want to know if she masturbates, just ask her? she's your girlfriend, it shouldn't be awkward

[arthur1]

Steer the conversation in that direction, until she asks you, at that point ask her if she does.

[Fluffy]

Steer the conversation in that direction, until she asks you, at that point ask her if she does.

I agree with his advice just steer the convo towards there

[WeArePeppers]

I don't think you should,because 13 year old girls aren't really comfortable talking about that,especially after only two months,but on the other hand i don't know.Everyone is different,maybe she'll be the first one to bring up the subject

[Gummi]

Thanks for your advice everyone.

The problem is that we never talk about sexual stuff not even a little bit. We haven't talked about masturbation or anything before, but she does kind of have a dirty mind haha, so I'm not sure if that means anything.

[WeArePeppers]

Well,i'm a girl and a lot of my girl friends are very dirty minded but if it comes to actual sexual talk with their partner they're all nervous and you'd never say that they are perverted.But then again,i don't know,only you here know how close you two are and considering you have known her for three years you should probably know is she'd be open to talk about it.

[Katiebabe98]

Maybe you could make up a story about catching a sibling or friend or something doing it and see how she reacts. If she is grossed out i wouldn't ask, but if she is cool with it then you could ask if she's ever been caught and go from there.

[nickisadinosaur]

^^ I agree with her. :p

[mrbigred]

Just ask her