Boyfriend touching my arse while on period

[beebs]

This seemed the best place to put this so whatever.

Basically im on my period at the mo, and im worried about my boyfriend, hes my boyfriend so he touches and holds my arse, but i dont want him to feel my sanitary towel, what can i do about thia?

[botwa]

Tell your boyfriend that you're on your period and don't feel comfortable with that.
If you're mature enough for the relationships your boyfriend have to be mature enough to deal with it I guess.

[Brighteyes]

If this is a long term relationship then I guess you must have talked openly and honestly about all things in life, naturally including your period....how you feel etc.

If this is the case then I really cannot see the big deal, your boyfriend knows and understands when you are on, that you will be wearing a pad, and you must come to terms with dealing with the fact if he touches it.

The only other alternative for you, is perhaps to use a tampon instead, although he could still easily feel/touch the string, which again you may not wish to happen.

[Weeping]

Just tell him that you're not comfortable with that while you're on your period (or not at all if that'd be the case). You don't have to tell him why really, like you don't want him to feel the pad, stuff like that can be uncomfortable overall when you're on your period.
If he doesn't respect it he's.. :c

:hugs: