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SAgirl
November 10th, 2011, 01:30 PM
I don't even know where to start...

Okay, well, basically I don't know whether I like girls or not. I tried the following visualisation techniques to see if I am or not:

A) Imagining myself with a bf or gf: I choose gf; it feels more natural and sits right with me.

B) I thought about who I would like to be romantically involved with: girls yet again

C) This one was to say what you like about physically about boys or girls: I imagined a boy, and nothing really stood out. But with a girl, immediately I thought of body shapes (like, hourglass, pear etc), and idk how to explain this, but I was like... drawn towards the imagined girl. Like I wanted that person. I don't think I'm explaining properly...

My main questions are:
1) What exactly is felt by a person when you are physically attracted to another person?
2) And what am I feeling? Like what is going on #confusion

Can'tHelpIt
November 13th, 2011, 09:27 AM
HOw old are you?

Jupiter
November 13th, 2011, 09:43 AM
And you might also be bisexual. You can accept yourself as confused for a while. Things aren't very clear when we are this age.

SAgirl
November 13th, 2011, 10:57 AM
Caleb, I'm 15.

And how can I be bi if I don't like guys? Please explain...

StoppingTime
November 13th, 2011, 10:59 AM
Personally, I think that almost all teens can't label themselves. They are still to young to really know what they want, and why. Don't worry about labels right now, they aren't important.

Most likely, since your only 15, you may be feeling hormones released during puberty. They make you think of things that you wouldn't normally have though of before. These pass within a few years, though, so don't worry.

Jupiter
November 13th, 2011, 11:00 AM
I'm sorry, I didn't read very carefully. You are just confused for now. At least, you are very likely confused. Good luck to you.

Can'tHelpIt
November 16th, 2011, 07:22 AM
Yeah you are totally confused I would say Straight/Curious b/c your not attracted to guys but your attracted to guys see what I'm saying :)

BiBoy5674
November 16th, 2011, 02:40 PM
i agree with ^^^ i would also say you are straight/curious :)