a guy i like

[diamondiris16]

ok so i like this guy and i have been trying to get his attention lately but he doesn't seem to notice. what should i do?

[Clawhammer]

Go get it. Is he worth enough to you to go out of your comfort zone for him?

[botwa]

how did you try to get his attention?
maybe you can try to do it another way, maybe your methods aren't effective enough?

[Bob_]

Well I'll give you this little fact: Guys can easily be as, if not more, shy with relationships. You should be flirty with him, and make it a little more obvious.

[LuckyLuke]

Listen, we're totally oblivious when it comes to relationships.

We can notice when a girl is attractive. When can notice when a girl is "hot". We can notice when a girl is funny and has a good personality. But when it comes to seeing whether or not she's interested... we're lost.

I was literally just told today by my female friend that another female friend is really into me and I returned a clueless stare. She said that they way she spoke to me and the way she looked at me made it clear she liked me... I thought she was being friendly...

So what I'm getting at is this: BE BLUNT. BE BLUNT. BE BLUNT. We're guys and we're clueless when it comes to relationships.

[diamondiris16]

how did you try to get his attention?
maybe you can try to do it another way, maybe your methods aren't effective enough?

i tried to be girlier like one of my friends suggested, i also try to talk to him more.

[botwa]

i tried to be girlier like one of my friends suggested, i also try to talk to him more.

ok, that's a good start.
I know boys like when they're told that they're really good at something. make compliments :) I know it may sound weird but I believe it can help. but don't just say what comes to your mind, be honest.