i give up shes never gonna be mine

[Solvez18]

alright, well earlier today i realised the girl i like is still with my friend after i thought they were over. but then i realised the two of them were talking and i thought nothing of it. but then i noticed they were holding hands :( Should i just give up on ever telling her i like her? it seems im never gonna get a chance.

[AJluvzyooh4eva]

no way!!! i liked a guy for like 2 terms and i waited and i got him
all good things to those who wait.....
xxx aj

[Solvez18]

but i wanted to tell her for 4 years now D:

[The Joker]

Why continue to wait?

[Solvez18]

Why continue to wait?

good question, but i don't feel comfortable mentioning it if they're still together.

[AJluvzyooh4eva]

its ok bud:) if she isnt willing to give you your time of day then she isnt worth it soz if that sounds harsh but anyways....

[AJluvzyooh4eva]

u'll find some1 betta 4 yooh

[abdheuuuchjc]

Back off until she's single but never give up

[Hollywood]

It's a bad idea to tell her if she's going out with someone else. That'll cast you in a bad light, and will possibly make her think you're trying to break her and her boyfriend up. Then it's all going to go to hell.

Just be patient and wait. If they break up, be there for her afterwards and go from there. Just don't pounce on her immediately, give her some time to get over it.

[Bob_]

Not to sound mean, but I doubt you were thinking too much about relationships before you were even 10. =P But seriously, do NOT stop her from what she's doing, or else she'll never like you even if she breaks up with your friend again. I understand the pain of waiting so long to do nothing about your feelings, but there's nothing you can do right now. Just stay close with her, but don't end up as too close friends. She'll make up her mind eventually, and whatever she decides, so be it.

[Solvez18]

i barely even get to talk to her. last time we talked properly was 3 years ago in class and even there we didn't say much. some people r going to tell me to get over it but if they do im just not gonna pay attention. because i have feelings for her. nothing can change that. but the whole holding hands thing makes me feel bad. im kinda depressed about it and earlier today i got so mad i just drank a truck load of milk because im allergic to it and felt i deserved to feel the pain of it.

[Hollywood]

i barely even get to talk to her. last time we talked properly was 3 years ago in class and even there we didn't say much. some people r going to tell me to get over it but if they do im just not gonna pay attention. because i have feelings for her. nothing can change that. but the whole holding hands thing makes me feel bad. im kinda depressed about it and earlier today i got so mad i just drank a truck load of milk because im allergic to it and felt i deserved to feel the pain of it.

According to your signature, you're only thirteen. So trust me, you're going to find other people you have feelings for. I was the same way when I was thirteen, I met a girl and went head over heals for her. But after a while I realized it wasn't worth it because I wasn't getting married tomorrow anyways. There's no point in going crazy about a girl at this point in your life, there will be others. Just don't get too worked up about it, it's not worth it. There's honestly nothing you can do at this point, she's doing her own thing and you're only going to hurt yourself if you continue to obsess over her.

People have made some good points in this thread. They're only trying to help you, but if you're going to ignore it there's not much we can do.

[Bob_]

but the whole holding hands thing makes me feel bad. im kinda depressed about it and earlier today i got so mad i just drank a truck load of milk because im allergic to it and felt i deserved to feel the pain of it.

1. Not to sound mean, but you need to get over her. You'll be meeting other people and having more opportunities, but only if you accept the truth. As Hollywood said, we say these things to help, and to make sure you do the best you can.

2. Don't hurt yourself over something like this, it's not worth doing something drastic like that when things will change and you'll have so much more to life in just a small amount to time. We're all here to support you, so just stay strong, and you'll see what we mean.

[Hajara22]

find another girl. life is too short to wait on a single person

[Veon]

Yup, like everyone is saying. There are more girls out there, its your choice to either keep the feelings or move on (which is mostly a better option). Hey even now, aren't there more girls than guys on Earth? Like Hajara22 said, life is too short, don't wait long. But if you wait for tremendous amount of time, it will hurt you.

[libbie]

u'll be fine luv she come 2

[nickisadinosaur]

I think you should tell her before you try to move on, if she's who you really want.

I mean, she doesn't even know. And how could you ever have her if she doesn't even know you want her? :p