Out of my league

[kaiba]

Hey, well i know this girl, no, i have a huge crush on this girl at my school. But the problem is thats she is WAY out of my league.

I'm the quiet, clever type but i'm not a nerd or anything and i have loads of friends but not in the same circle as hers. Her friends are older, she has had quite a few older boyfriends and everyone knows she's not a virgin anymore too.

So how am i supposed to compete? How am i supposed to get her to be with me?

[Dack]

First off: leagues don't exist. They're just things guys and girls say to either a: let you down easy or b: take him/her for them self.

If you want to date her, just be nice about it and talk to her. Make jokes, be yourself, and maybe she'll start liking you. But your intentions must be made clear from the start by subtly hinting, not just blatantly saying it. Be yourself and just go for it!

[LuckyLuke]

Starting to talk with her, get her to know your name is a good start. Face-time is important for getting your foot in the door.

Also, as the user above had said, "leagues" don't exist. People are people and despite whatever social groups they may be in is totally irrelevant. It may be more difficult for a successful relationship because people are obnoxious and will likely cause trouble and harass you both about it but if you really like her, that's the price you have to be willing to pay.

[Bob_]

Since those two answered your first question, I'll help with the other. I've noticed I usually only go for firls outside of my group entirely. It just seems that inter-group relationships never work, and all of your friends end up dating them at one point. The negative, though, is that you can't be around them a lot, and you don't have a very largely developed relationship already. It's all just your choice to make a move, though.

[abdheuuuchjc]

Never give up broski even if she says no don't be broken