Blue63
November 7th, 2011, 12:12 AM
I'm supposed to be her friend. She's supposed to be mine. I'll make it quick.
At the beginning of summer, I got into a large fight with one of my closest friends. She had been my best friend for months, and we belligerently fought for three days straight. She really liked a friend of mine. They flirted constantly. She wanted a relationship. He didn't. He wouldn't tell her that. At a party they hooked up, even after I warned her about his (lack of) intentions. She texted me distraught about it the next day. I (unfortunately, bluntly) called her out on her mistake. I just didn't want to see her get hurt.
I just don't want to see her get hurt.
She's falling for him again. She came to her senses, but now it's just like the beginning of summer all over again. She wants him so badly. She really wants him. And I'm the only one that can see it. There's been so much distance between us since our fight. We've "made up" several times, but it's not the same. She's grown bored with me. I still care for her. Stupidly.
She's falling for him again. History is repeating itself. I know I shouldn't say anything. Not to him. Not to her. I've learned to shut my mouth. But I can't just watch her get hurt. I can't just let it happen, can I? I can't be around the two of them together. It's nauseating. Knowing what she wants, knowing what he doesn't, they act like the've been dating for months. People ask if they're a couple. She's so hopeful and he's so condescending.
Do I just shut up and watch? Just watch a girl I care about far too much hurt herself (strangely enough, I don't have romantic feelings for her. I just really miss my best friend. I miss the girl that was there for me no matter what. She tossed me aside for him)?
Advice would be lovely. Thank you.
At the beginning of summer, I got into a large fight with one of my closest friends. She had been my best friend for months, and we belligerently fought for three days straight. She really liked a friend of mine. They flirted constantly. She wanted a relationship. He didn't. He wouldn't tell her that. At a party they hooked up, even after I warned her about his (lack of) intentions. She texted me distraught about it the next day. I (unfortunately, bluntly) called her out on her mistake. I just didn't want to see her get hurt.
I just don't want to see her get hurt.
She's falling for him again. She came to her senses, but now it's just like the beginning of summer all over again. She wants him so badly. She really wants him. And I'm the only one that can see it. There's been so much distance between us since our fight. We've "made up" several times, but it's not the same. She's grown bored with me. I still care for her. Stupidly.
She's falling for him again. History is repeating itself. I know I shouldn't say anything. Not to him. Not to her. I've learned to shut my mouth. But I can't just watch her get hurt. I can't just let it happen, can I? I can't be around the two of them together. It's nauseating. Knowing what she wants, knowing what he doesn't, they act like the've been dating for months. People ask if they're a couple. She's so hopeful and he's so condescending.
Do I just shut up and watch? Just watch a girl I care about far too much hurt herself (strangely enough, I don't have romantic feelings for her. I just really miss my best friend. I miss the girl that was there for me no matter what. She tossed me aside for him)?
Advice would be lovely. Thank you.