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AlmostHomeless
November 6th, 2011, 10:16 AM
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StoppingTime
November 6th, 2011, 10:29 AM
No. She is wrong. You've got one life, make the best of it.

Maybe if you feel comfortable, you could talk to her, an ask her about gettin help.
Has she said anything else about it yet?

AlmostHomeless
November 6th, 2011, 10:37 AM
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Fiction
November 6th, 2011, 01:06 PM
Your mother, if i'm honest, doesn't know what she's talking about.

You need to ignore what she's saying, and then maybe in a few days when she's calmed down a bit try and talk to her. If she's still being like this about it, then maybe you could get help from school or something? It's not as though you have to worry about the school telling your mother anymore.

It's very brave to tell your parents or anyone about your self-harm. I understand that probably at the moment you are majorly regretting it, but that doesn't make it any less brave. It's a hard thing to do, definately something I admire you for :)

AlmostHomeless
November 6th, 2011, 01:16 PM
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Dancergurrl
November 7th, 2011, 02:41 AM
I'm so, SO sorry that she reacted the way she did. All the things she said about how you should kill yourself are lies. Do you understand? You truly are valuable. And I'm sure your mother really does love you. The shock of finding out that you did this to yourself made her snap and say horrible things. But really, she didn't mean it.

You are so strong, so brave, to tell her. I've cut myself for three years now. I will never have the courage to tell my mother what you have told yours. It means you're a good, brave person. Don't doubt yourself. You are going to make it and recover. I believe in you.

SirentoCries
November 7th, 2011, 07:43 AM
Hahaha!! <<not being offensive

I think many ppl got this reply trying to speak to their parents.
I spoke to them twice. Once I was 7 years old, to my mom and dad, they did nothing.
Second time, 1-2 years ago, she told me "I should just die" just like how your mom told you to.

If this is the reply you got from them....I reckon you don't ask for them to pay more attention to you. I tried...now things got worst...and I regret it. I remember I told myself since young that I should never ever talk to my mom about stuff like this. I tried, failed but I tried...It is hard but again, don't talk to your mom.

Do self-heal, write journals, listen to music, focus on studies, if you have good friends, talk to them. I do a lot of self-diagnose....

I thought I could talk to my sister too, but after I talked, I realized I shouldn't have, they never understand...well things might be different for you so good luck.

AlmostHomeless
November 7th, 2011, 06:22 PM
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