Awkward....

[markdawg]

Well hello,
So yeah, for the last year my 'friend' - well person who I used to be friends with now just talk to and flirt with is wishing to take things one step further..

Up to now this is what's happened:


He sent me a picture of himself (nude)
I replied with a picture (nude)
He sent me several videos of himself and other's
I sent him 1 of myself
He asked me to meet him in a PARK for a BJ
I met him in the park for a HJ but he had to leave so that never happened
He asked several times to give me a BJ
I turned him down (nurves)
He suggested sex
We had no location


So yeah.. That's where we're up to now - haven't talked to him in a few days now. But still I want to do something with him. It's not getting over the fears it's the fact that I don't know if I can trust him (I'm not 100% out to the school and don't wish for everyone to know that I am!)

Should I just go with it and hope for the best or what?

[Donkey]

Sharing naked pictures of yourself is illegal, unsafe and stupid. Don't do that. Not only is it child pornography but you're risking the picture being shared around others. Meeting up with people for sex is uncompassionate and, in my opinion, the sex will be shit: you're also at a much higher risk of contacting STIs because you don't know them or where they've been as such and chances are they've done it before.

I don't think taking the risk would be worth a few minutes of fun I'm afraid. Maybe if you entered a relationship, but in my opinion the fuckbuddies thing isn't going to be good for you.

[Sosaku]

a fuck buddy, is good for someone you know, and have a crush on but you know them well enough that you know you'll never have a relationship with them...and like Rafiki said....that shit you've done is illegal...if you ever throw away your phone..or lose it, even if you think you deleted it...it can still be found...in fact...people can find it online...so you're probably like a child porn star in some other country....you're lucky you haven't gone to jail yet... then meeting people in the park? isn't that how ALL stereotypical rape stories begin??? you're being stupid...learn to think with the head on your shoulders, not between your legs before you get hurt....

[botwa]

blowjob in a park?
seriously?
and I think that you're so desperate for sex that you stopped thinking at all.
I remember the web site with pissed off guy who showed everyone pictures of his naked ex GF.
do you want your pictures to be shown to everybody?

find a boyfriend or buy a vibrator

[markdawg]

Sharing naked pictures of yourself is illegal, unsafe and stupid. Don't do that. Not only is it child pornography but you're risking the picture being shared around others.

you're lucky you haven't gone to jail yet...


and I think that you're so desperate for sex that you stopped thinking at all.
I remember the web site with pissed off guy who showed everyone pictures of his naked ex GF.
do you want your pictures to be shown to everybody?

find a boyfriend or buy a vibrator

Good points - although let me clear things up

Yes I'm fully aware that sending and gaining images is illegal - 'haven't gone to jail yet...' extreme much?

I liked your quote botwa - made me laugh. The sex in the park was never my idea. The guy was my best friend and I've known him since I was 5. Hence why he's the only one I trusted enough to do anything with!

'find a boyfriend or buy a vibrator' - quote of the week :yeah:

Thanks for your replies!

[Can'tHelpIt]

Depending how old you are like 16-17 you should get tested for STD's and theres one STD that guys cant find out by testing but you can get a shot for it (I've learned all of this in 8th grade health My teacher doesn't hold back) use condoms and lube
BUT unless you know that he is the right one don't do it!!!!!!!!!

[BiBoy5674]

I agree with sosaku it dangerous !!