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adrenaline500mg
November 5th, 2011, 11:45 AM
Well, I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant. I took a test because i was feeling really odd. Thing is I was realllyyyy tired and I fell asleep before checking it. I know than after a while the line can pretty much erase itself. Well when I woke up and I checked it. The control line was there, as usual, and the test line was kind of there. It was really faint thpugh. I've been trying to get another test to make sure, but no luck so far.
Sooo... Yeah.
Oh, and I'm 15, I know who the father is.. Unfortunatly it's not my boyfriend's. And ifmy boyfriend doesn't leave me for this, the decision whether i keep the baby is going to be a group decision between me, my boyfriend, the father and my parents.
Hollywood
November 5th, 2011, 11:44 PM
Well, before you do anything you have to be certain. If you can't get your hands on another test, visit a doctor and see what they can do for you.
I won't get into a whole debate about abortion and all, since this isn't really the place. But if it does come out that you're pregnant, you have to be honest with everyone, including your boyfriend. Hopefully he won't leave you, but I'm sure he won't be too thrilled to hear this.
Hope everything works out, and keep us posted.
adrenaline500mg
November 6th, 2011, 03:23 PM
If i can't get another test I'm going to tell my mom. She's a medical lab technician in a hospital. She works in the part of the hospital that tests blood andurine for drugs, STDs and stuff. And that includes pregnancy. When i first became sexually active she freaked out and took a bunch of tests from her work. Soo, if i tell her she can either take more tests, or i can pee in a cup and she'll bring it to the lab and test it.
botwa
November 7th, 2011, 03:26 AM
you should really tell your mom anyway.
it's the 1st thing to do.
if you're afraid to tell her than the only thong is to get another test and try once more.
but the best way to know is blood test I guess.
So it's up to you to decide.
adrenaline500mg
November 7th, 2011, 05:58 PM
So the father found out from some friends I've recently been fighting with. They kept calling me from a blocked number. So I made my phone automatically reject blocked numbers. Then they started calling my house phone! they kept saying shit like I'm a whore and the kid's not his. I heard the father say "i'm not the father, she's a stupid crack whore!" So I'm like what teh fuck. I'm seriouly pissed off right now. I told them that if they called me one more time I would call the cops. So they stopped calling after that. And I gave my friend who lives out of state their number and now she's calling them telling tem to quit it and shit.
There is absolutely NO way I can describe how pissed I am. the fucking father of my kid is denying it and calling me all these names! And I know for a fact he's the dad because he's the ONLY guy i've slept with for MONTHS!!!!! Yeah, explain how he's not the father. Unless I was drugged and raped and don't remember it, I'm 110% sure he's the dad. Omg this is like some maury shit!!! I swear, if the decision is to keep the baby I'm gonna make him do a paternity test and we'll see how shitty he feels when he finds out it's his.
AGH!:furious::furious::furious::furious::blowup:
botwa
November 8th, 2011, 05:25 AM
so you're sure now you're pregnant?
I bet you should concentrate on what you're going to do further.
those "friends" are really oh, I don't even have an appropriate word for them
Roses_Are_Yellow
November 8th, 2011, 09:38 PM
I'm sorry :( All of them sound like such asses, and they're not worth it anyway. I think the best thing to do is tell your parents. Good luck! And maybe the dad is just afraid, and that's why he's saying all those horrible things about you.
adrenaline500mg
November 9th, 2011, 07:10 PM
Yeah. i saw the father in school today and i wanted so badly to walk into his class and smack the shit out of him. Idk.. My cousin's taking me to planned parenthood soon.
adrenaline500mg
November 10th, 2011, 09:17 PM
Yeah.. So.. I woke up at 1 AM this morning to major cramps and a little bleeding. And it just kept getting worse... And soo i took a pregnancy test and it was negative. I think I was pregnant and now.. yeah.
i'm crying...
Somebody like delete this thread.... I don't wanna remember this...
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