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Luke.m
November 5th, 2011, 07:09 AM
One day me and my cousin were home alone and we went up to my room to play a game of cards. He suggested that the loser of every round has to remove a piece of clothing. This was ok since we are really close and have seen each other naked loads of times. He is 1 year younger btw and this happened a couple of weeks ago. Eventually we were both naked and decided the loser had to do a dare. By the end of it the dares got worse and we j/o each other off. Is this weird?
Young Wolf
November 5th, 2011, 07:57 AM
seems you both were happy with this. It was going to happen from the start so just enjoy when you both want to.
Scotland
November 5th, 2011, 09:01 AM
I dont think theres anything wrong with it, if you 2 are comfortable then sure, just make sure things stay to yourselves if you know what i mean, incest isnt a very good thing :)
michael.95
November 5th, 2011, 10:22 AM
No it's not weird, it actually sounds very fun!
maxii
November 5th, 2011, 11:59 AM
dont do things like that with family. It okay to expiriment. But in my head, I think family is off limits
John Marston
November 5th, 2011, 12:32 PM
Yeah... I, personally, find it a bit 'different' to experiment with your cousin. You should try a friend that you're really close with.
Foamy
November 5th, 2011, 12:33 PM
Not bad. experimentation is normal. you both were comfortable with it, so don't worry.
just
November 5th, 2011, 12:51 PM
I think everything was ok, until you j/o each other, that is not normal since he is your cousin, maybe you could j/o but not each other.
Guy7282
November 5th, 2011, 01:37 PM
Doesn't sound weird, kinda sounds fun.
CryWolf
November 5th, 2011, 02:55 PM
Well normal is a relative term (no pun intended....well okay yeah it was) in puberty. It sounds like you guys were building up to this anyway. Horny is one things, attraction is another. I think it sounds harmless enough so far, but I wouldn't let it go further. Things like this happen so I wouldn't get caught up in the whole "am I weird" thing. Just be careful and don't let it go too far.
zakclh
November 5th, 2011, 03:20 PM
Personally I don't see anything wrong with it, your both okay with and no one got hurt, so no worries :)
Michigan48111
November 5th, 2011, 03:25 PM
Nothing wrong with it, lots of us have done stuff like that with friends / cousins. Enjoy what you guys do.
cpr97
November 5th, 2011, 04:09 PM
i dont think its wrong or weird or anythin long as you were both comfortble with it i mean even though your not supposed to turn down a dare if it was somethin either of you werent comfortble with im sure you woulda refused i agree with someone else that he prolly had this in mind the whole time when he came up with the idea of "strip poker" n then "dare poker" just make sure goin forward your safe with whatever you do n both are comfortble as it should be with any sort of sexual contact between you n anyone not just your cousin
curiousme
November 5th, 2011, 05:12 PM
i think this is perfectly normal i do things with my cousin too we both enjoy it so theres no harm if you both feel comfortable doing it keep doing it just make sure no one finds out and i also did this with one of my friends and we loved it i wish i could do it more often :)
smexykid
November 5th, 2011, 10:36 PM
well, its not that its totally wrong but personally I would feel weird, but to each his own? am i saying that right? english phrases still confuse me
cpr97
November 6th, 2011, 03:09 AM
i think this is perfectly normal i do things with my little cousin too we both enjoy it so theres no harm if you both feel comfortable doing it keep doing it just make sure no one finds out and i also did this with one of my friends and we loved it i wish i could do it more often :) oh btw im 14 and my cousin is 8 and my friend is 14 too
not sure bout Canada but be careful with the age difference between you n your 8 year old cousin... not sure what you n him do nor does it matter or have to get mentioned here im just sayin that might be like "borderline" illegal especially if your "touchin" eachother cousin or not again if you want to keep doin it nobody on here can stop you just be careful cuz that is quite n age difference
KingdomHearts
November 6th, 2011, 03:18 AM
I Have Experimented With One Of My Male Cousins & We Were Both Fine With it.
We're Now Even Closer Friends Than We Used To Be :)
So Its Okay As Long As Both People Are Okay With It & It Doesn't Mess Up Your Relationship With Them! (Family & Friends)
londonerguy
November 6th, 2011, 11:50 AM
Sounds like fun to me :)
appel1234
November 6th, 2011, 12:16 PM
No it's not weird, it actually sounds very fun!
i agree
SwimTech
November 6th, 2011, 04:18 PM
Not weird at all. As long as both of you consented and had fun, no problems. I agree with the others when they say it sounds fun haha
TheBigUnit
November 6th, 2011, 05:10 PM
Sound fun!
Fourth Dimension
November 6th, 2011, 06:30 PM
well i dont see anything wrong with it really as long as you didnt take it to far and as long as you two were both comfortable with it
Luke91
November 6th, 2011, 08:42 PM
It sounds like it was what both of you wanted so no harm done. Experimenting is perfectly normal even with cousins.
jockeyboy97
November 7th, 2011, 01:43 AM
I personally don't see anything wrong with experimenting with your cousin. In fact my cousin was the first guy I experimented with, he is two years older than me. I was ten and he was twelve when we first experimented. I was willing and totally enjoyed it. He has taught me alot. I feel that as long as both parties want to experiment with each other and no one is being pressured it is ok. As far as an eight year old cousin I think that is totally off limits. Not only the legal issues but he is also too young to really fully understand what he is doing and to know if he really wants to experiment sexually. I would reconsider not having any more experimentation with him.
you know103
November 7th, 2011, 01:50 AM
as long as yall dont take it to far is all good
ddbumblebee
November 7th, 2011, 04:18 AM
That sounds pretty normal to me:)
Trinity_15
November 11th, 2011, 12:52 PM
nope it doesn't sound weird... :) can i join??? :D
superstarB
November 11th, 2011, 02:40 PM
i dont see the problem because u say u guys are really close so no i dont find it weird and if u guys have fun with it do it
zelda98
November 15th, 2011, 05:47 AM
nope nothing wrong with it if you are both confterable being around each other naked
audiophile5
November 15th, 2011, 08:01 AM
Sounds great! Just make sure no one finds out. ;)
aero87dude
November 15th, 2011, 10:02 AM
I believe that it is just human nature to want to explore and "play around" witht he people that are closest to you. You trust them and they trust you. Just be careful and don't put yourself in a vulnerable situation. It is COMPLETELY NORMAL to explore!
SuperYachtDude666
November 15th, 2011, 11:55 AM
as long as ur both comfortable with it...it should be fine
NHSoccerjock
November 15th, 2011, 01:32 PM
ive jerked off with my cousin before.. not that weird :P
libra210
November 16th, 2011, 01:25 AM
if you don't feel any different around him because of that, then no it wasnt wrong.
BiBoy5674
November 16th, 2011, 05:26 PM
as long as your both ok with it, it ok :)
Polishbum
November 16th, 2011, 05:28 PM
j/o with others is actually very fun, if he wasn't in any way shocked then you guys are fine, and it is NOT WEIRD
Tonebone88
November 19th, 2011, 02:10 PM
I think it's perfectly normal. You probably both knew what would happen when he suggested you take off your clothes over cards. And since you are only cousins, I do not think it is weird.
TacoRocco
November 19th, 2011, 07:17 PM
It isn't exactly legal to make sexual advances with blood relatives. You were only experimenting, so it isn't as bad. Curiosity got the best of you, not need to fret over it. As long as it doesn't happen too often, then it is okay. Masturbating with him should be the farthest you should consider going with him. As long as no physical contact is involved, it is fine.
kjr32legendracer
November 19th, 2011, 07:55 PM
It isn't exactly legal to make sexual advances with blood relatives. You were only experimenting, so it isn't as bad. Curiosity got the best of you, not need to fret over it. As long as it doesn't happen too often, then it is okay. Masturbating with him should be the farthest you should consider going with him. As long as no physical contact is involved, it is fine.
Im not positive but i don't think its "illegal" to have sexual relations with blood relatives it is however strongly reccomended to NOT reproduce with a blood relative due to possible birth defects and such but seen as 2 males can't reproduce i dont think he has anything to worry about.
kjr32legendracer
November 19th, 2011, 07:59 PM
Sorry internet glitched
AlvinMario
November 19th, 2011, 08:52 PM
If you comfy that's not weird, its just a game for fun, normally.
acurasrock
November 19th, 2011, 08:58 PM
If your comfortable with it then it's no big deal, if it starts to get weird, don't do it anymore. And certainly don't get caught by the family, may I suggest locking the door!
Dentist101
November 19th, 2011, 11:02 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it, but I wouldn't make it a habit, tho it doesn't seem like it causes any harm
TacoRocco
November 19th, 2011, 11:06 PM
Im not positive but i don't think its "illegal" to have sexual relations with blood relatives it is however strongly reccomended to NOT reproduce with a blood relative due to possible birth defects and such but seen as 2 males can't reproduce i dont think he has anything to worry about.
Yes, it is illegal, even if it is 2 males. If they are 1st cousins, it is illegal
Tonebone88
November 23rd, 2011, 12:03 AM
As was said before, I think he knew what would happen when he suggested the strip poker and you probably did too. There's no harm in experiment, even if he is your cousin. Especially because he is only a year younger than you, I would not consider it a big deal.
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