Girl I Like

[The Shots]

Hi, first post so bare with me.
Basically, I really like this girl in my
school she is in the year/grade below.
but only 5 months younger.
I speak to her on facebook virtually
everyday and we have videochatted
2/3 times now.
I hardly ever see her in school, but if I
see her she might tap me on the
shoulder and say hi.
Two main problems, I usually walk
with my friends home from school,
and it would look dodgy if I go with
her instead. I only done that once
and we had a five minute chat that
went ok.
So how do I talk to her more in real
life, and can I do it without it looking
wierd?
Secondly, I have no idea if she likes
me or if shes just being friendly. I'm
ok friends with her, how can I take it
to the.next level?

[Hollywood]

Well, something's not right if you feel 'dodgy' having people see you around her. I mean, if you really like her, you should almost want people to see you with her. But I won't judge you there.

Well, the best and easiest thing would be just walking home together. How far do you guys live from each other? If it's fairly close, you guys could ride bikes and just take casual walks together. Then go from there. If not, you can ride over to her place sometimes and just hang out, or tell her she can come over to your place anytime.

If you want to take it to the next level, then you just have to be straightforward with her. Tell her you like her. She'll never know if you don't tell her. If the feeling isn't mutual, then don't let it hurt the relationship. Just continue doing the things you did before.

Hope this helps.

[Bob_]

Hmm, try my tactic (if possible) and walk around with her in the middle of the night. It allows for a lot of aone time, and when you're groggy, you don't think before you do anything. It's a ton of fun, as well. However, if you can't do this, just talk to her in school, starting with simple jokes relating to the situation, and eventually full conversations. Just progressively get closer with her, and she'll start to like you if she doesn't already. But remember, if you like her avoid the friend zone. It kills you a litttle inside when you end up there, lol.

Do what you want, don't listen to your mind. Whatever you want, just let peoplebget used to it, they always do.

[Derek951]

Cool you found someone you like man. Of course, now you have to figure out if she likes you back.

I wouldn't feel dodgy about walking home with her. If the people you walk home with now are real friends, they'll understand I'm sure. Or maybe just walk with her every other day, so they don't feel left out. I know it's hard to see her in person, so I'd try talking more on the phone if you can. A lot easier to figure out if she likes you that way instead of by text.

[jockguy14]

you're friends will understand if you walk with a girl. theyll tease you, sure, but they get it.

[JosieMae]

what more does she have to do to get through to you? she likes you - stop worrying about your mates and spend some time with her or she'll give up on you