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MusicRox
November 4th, 2011, 11:44 AM
Hey,

So I know some people say 'friend' as code for themselves but I honestly mean one of my mates.

We were talking one day and our conversation led to masturbation (he's my best mate). Anyway, I found out that when he is cumming he 'blocks the pipes'.
I have heard this can cause damage to male sex organs and I needed help backing this up. I tried to convince him to maybe not use that method and to let it go and just clean up but yer, he's set.

I dont want to force him into anything and if he feels fine with that method than all the best for him. But I am worried that he may do himself long term harm.

Any Advice or Alternatives?

Thanks,
MusicRox

Mr. Awesome
November 4th, 2011, 12:10 PM
Well all you can do is tell him, google search it to find something to back it up, from a quick search i couldnt find any articles although there is loads of yahoo answers for the question.

Just let him know it can cause him damage, and it feels better to have the release and so on

Scotland
November 4th, 2011, 12:45 PM
Could always use scare tactics, google images is probably full of pictures of people who have done this and fucked something up... show him some of them and he'll probably stop it pretty quickly

cpr97
November 4th, 2011, 02:06 PM
does he do this to avoid cummin cuz of the mess or does he do it for some sort of "turn on" to himself... i have never done it nor do i plan on tryin it so im not sure if theres any different feelin of this vs. actually shootin it out if thats the case it may be hard to talk him out of doin this if he enjoys the feelin or pleasure of it... however if he does it to avoid cleanin up the mess of cum give him other options to make clean up easier for example tell him he could just cum on a towel, use a condom, shoot it in a sink or toilet (those are prolly the easiest clean ups lol) or even do it in the shower... again just make sure you let him know your just tryin to help him n look out for his health in the long term hopefully he will listen to you but good luck to the both of you

Psychintraining
November 4th, 2011, 04:31 PM
I think I've done what your friend does, I didn't know it was unhealthy?!

Scotland
November 4th, 2011, 04:33 PM
I think I've done what your friend does, I didn't know it was unhealthy?!

Think about it like this, if you were taking a drink and somebody put their hands round your throat to stop the drink going down your throat, its gonna cause some problems isnt it? Same idea here, the pressure builds up in the penis to push out the semen, if you tightly grasp the penis to stop this flow then your gonna end up with some problems id imagine.

Im no doctor so i could be wrong, but thats how i see it.

Foamy
November 4th, 2011, 05:36 PM
He shouldn't do it. But it's his dick—if he wants problems, let him have them.

MusicRox
November 4th, 2011, 06:09 PM
Ok I found information, it's called injaculation (as opposed to ejaculation). It is when you prevent any seman from leaving the penis by pressing against the urethra at the base of the penis. It is considered dangerous because of the added pressure it places on the seminal ducts. Associated medical conditions are kidney infection, pain and even infirtility. Man that's serious.

He does it for the clean up factor...and yer. I'm gonna see if he changes but I must stress that he can do whatever he likes, it's his penis. I'll just give him the information

cpr97
November 4th, 2011, 06:24 PM
yea just educate him on the possible side effects n like i suggested before give him ideas how he can ejaculate n avoid the clean up factor or mess but yea just be careful with how you mention it to him dont make it seem like your callin him stupid or anythin he may get deffensive rather quickly but best of luck to you both... man i hope he listens for his sake n future health deff be ready to show him the information you found it may help him realize how serious of n issue it is