Dont know what to think

[twotall]

ive been talking to ppl and about general things then they just stop talking or i finally meet a guy i get close to they just stop talking really feeling lost?

[Psychintraining]

I timeline would be helpful. I don't quite understand what you're problem or question is.

[twotall]

ok i started talking to a guy and we became friends about two three months ago and just talked just as friends. then we got closer and then out of now where we broke apart. now i feel like i every time i start to talk to a guy they are going to end up just stop talking to me for some reason. Im a person that just want the truth if i made someone mad or offend them i would want them to tell me. does that help?

[cpr97]

ok i started talking to a guy and we became friends about two three months ago and just talked just as friends. then we got closer and then out of now where we broke apart. now i feel like i every time i start to talk to a guy they are going to end up just stop talking to me for some reason. Im a person that just want the truth if i made someone mad or offend them i would want them to tell me. does that help?

i cant speak for the guy that did this... but maybe he did feel uncomfortable or like things were movin to fast or maybe he even realized that things were movin in a "direction" he didnt want or feel comfortable with... maybe he felt that was the easiest way to handle it n didnt want to try to talk bout it cuz he was affraid of hurtin your feelins if he was blatantly honest with you... (idk if he knew how you would rather be told the honest truth)... have you tried to contact him since? whats he do/say or hows he act when you try to contact him? if not maybe try contactin him (maybe he felt you were no longer intrested in him your sayin you broke apart he could be feelin the same way)
either way if/when you get in contact with him again or start talkin to another person its best to let them know up front that you would like the honest truth if you offend them or make them feel uncomfortable or even if they decide its not workin out or they arent into it anymore.... but i would deff try n patch things up you seem like you enjoyed this guys company/friendship alot
good luck

[twotall]

well i tried contacting him but no response. i do miss his friendship, idk mybe its just better and thanks for the help cody

[Foamy]

Well....everyone has those moments when they shut themselves away from the world... Although in your case it might be because of the other guy not wanting to escalate a possibly already tense situation. He may not have known that u fancied him, and when he realized it he stopped talking to u so it wouldn't continue. All guys aren't like that, but sone definitely are.

[cpr97]

well i tried contacting him but no response. i do miss his friendship, idk mybe its just better and thanks for the help cody

no prob dude anytime... yea maybe its for the best everythin in life happens for a reason n every negative has a positive sometimes the challenge is just realizin what the positive is