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vanhalenftw1539
November 3rd, 2011, 04:23 PM
Hey in a couple nights im spending the night with 2 guy friends. im pretty close with them and ive known them for years, but never spent the night with them. they spend the night together all the time though and they can get pretty crazy as far as nudity and stuff goes. i wanna join in, but ive never hung out naked with people or done anything like that before. what if i get a boner or something? because none of us are gay whatsoever but im probably a little more curious than they are. i dont want them to think i'm weird or anything, what do i do if i get hard?
cpr97
November 3rd, 2011, 04:36 PM
just go with it chances are if they are "pretty crazy" n hang out naked together alot they prolly jerk off together or maybe even more (maybe they dont tell people cuz they are affraid they will get made fun of) n if you get a boner its not the end of the world i mean guys get boners randomlly all the time... if you feel yourself gettin 1 just say you were thinkin bout a girl you know or somethin of that sort but i doubt they will make fun of you besides its common for boys to get boners seein other boys naked n what not just cuz you get hard dont mean you bi or gay as i learned in a post i made here you can even do stuff with other boys n not be considered bi or gay... (in order to be bi or gay you have to feel n emotional connection to the same sex) me personally thanx to people on here consider myself curious cuz I dont have the emotional connection i wouldnt kiss do anal or go out with a guy just some of the other stuff... another excuse you could use if you get hard n they "dont approve" of it is tell em you aint jerked off in a while
SwimTech
November 3rd, 2011, 04:43 PM
I'm sure they get boners all the time if they hang out and there is nudity as you say. Just have fun hanging out with them. Just go with the flow and see how everything plays out. You have nothing to worry about! :)
Foamy
November 3rd, 2011, 06:01 PM
They probably do stuff together if they're naked. nothing to worry about.
LuckyLuke
November 3rd, 2011, 07:25 PM
Relax. You're likely making a bigger deal of it than it really is.
You're going there to hang out, hang out! If they get naked, cool- whatever. Just go with the flow and relax about it.
jockguy14
November 3rd, 2011, 07:27 PM
Agreed. Go with the flow. Don't make a big deal out of it. This ain't a biggie.
Willy94
November 3rd, 2011, 08:45 PM
i would just go with it. have fun
Luke91
November 4th, 2011, 07:51 PM
If they hang out naked you know they have had a boner. Be glad they are letting you be a part. Relax and have fun with them.
acurasrock
November 4th, 2011, 09:23 PM
Ya know the saying Boys will Be Boys, that's all it is. Experimenting with friends is totally normal, if you're not comfortable with it then don't participate thats all!
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Frank2de
November 4th, 2011, 10:18 PM
I have been in that situation. If you do
Happen to get one they might just tag
Along with you. I had three friends Ashton,
Keaton, and Zack. None of them are gay
Zack was really hot. It was hard for me to
Be around him cause I didn't want him to
That I liked him liked him. I did see his he felt mine
But he just wanted to feel. He said he
Couldn't even feel it. Which made me relieved
Cause I had a boner at that time
Trinity_15
November 4th, 2011, 10:23 PM
chillax they will probs get hard aswell
LoganB_
November 4th, 2011, 11:15 PM
prolly wont be a big deal to them
Mtc 10
November 7th, 2011, 08:44 PM
if they are naked and stuff they are probaly doing more than thye are telling you!
BaNd
November 9th, 2011, 05:06 PM
i would just go with it. have fun
agreed
Zarakly
November 9th, 2011, 05:18 PM
Just go with it, if its you r2 best friedns nothing big will happen, I spent the night with my 2 best friends a week or 2 ago, my friend got a boner all we did was laugh about it for a few mins then you just sort of forget about it i guess...
Guy7282
November 9th, 2011, 09:18 PM
If you get a boner, well it happens. I'm sure they will have them too. Have fun.
danny_12
November 9th, 2011, 09:22 PM
You'll be good, just have fun and don't be shy, If anything they'll probably make fun of you cause your scared of getting naked or something... Go enjoy yourself bro
SportsNutChase
November 9th, 2011, 09:32 PM
Just go slow dude! been to so many sleep overs but nothing happend. I didnt want it to. IDK friends are friends!
MassiveAttack
November 9th, 2011, 11:10 PM
Your all boys, boys get boners, so if you get one it won't be a problem because I'm sure they will probably get one to, in that whole time period... Besides its not like they don't know what a boner looks like if they are a guy
danny_12
November 9th, 2011, 11:13 PM
Your all boys, boys get boners, so if you get one it won't be a problem because I'm sure they will probably get one to, in that whole time period... Besides its not like they don't know what a boner looks like if they are a guy
right!
Unsolvedmind
November 9th, 2011, 11:45 PM
You said you guys have been friends for a while! Well there's your answer 60% chances they won't care! They have probably done it with out you knowing! But who knows? Heres the point just go over there and have a blast with your friends
;) :D
Brian12
November 10th, 2011, 01:16 AM
Hey in a couple nights im spending the night with 2 guy friends. im pretty close with them and ive known them for years, but never spent the night with them. they spend the night together all the time though and they can get pretty crazy as far as nudity and stuff goes. i wanna join in, but ive never hung out naked with people or done anything like that before. what if i get a boner or something? because none of us are gay whatsoever but im probably a little more curious than they are. i dont want them to think i'm weird or anything, what do i do if i get hard?
Hey, not to worry, they get hard too. so what?
emmettman
December 4th, 2011, 06:56 PM
i think its normal to hang out with other guys nakedly because we all have dicks and balls. if you get hard then it's okay the other guys since their naked will probably get hard too. if you do and they don't just pretend that nothing has grown or changed
JoshD
December 4th, 2011, 07:28 PM
they'll probably like it if you get hard.
Tonebone88
December 4th, 2011, 10:49 PM
I say you should just go for it because they already hang out naked, which suggests that they are just as curious as you are. If you get a boner, just tell them its one of those random ones that happens for no reason... or you could suggest a jackoff session.
Xandle
December 5th, 2011, 01:33 PM
If I were you, already have a boner ready and just play with it and say you're horny.
rider15
December 5th, 2011, 03:24 PM
just go wit the flow, your all guys and im sure they wouldnt mind; if there the way you say they are, just do it and im sure if you got one, someone else is bound to get one too. just don't fret too much :)
Short Circuit
December 5th, 2011, 03:40 PM
Whats the point of answering this now? Its over a month old, and the sleepover has already happened!
Giles
December 5th, 2011, 04:19 PM
It's fairly likely that they will be just as curious and concerned about anything that may happen as you are. If something does happen then it's not the end of the world; if they go on to mention it, which I doubt they will, it probably won't be negative.
hallo
December 5th, 2011, 04:50 PM
just make a joke about it and act as if its normal
ElectronicAlex96
December 5th, 2011, 05:33 PM
just have fun with it.
ps. VanHalen WIN
zelda98
December 6th, 2011, 06:17 AM
just laugh it off and have fun, we're all guys, it happens to the best of us
swaswa
December 8th, 2011, 04:13 PM
honestly....if i were you....(wish i wuz) if you get a boner and the notice, say " bet you wanna touch it" then pull down your pants and underwear
Skumar824
December 8th, 2011, 04:13 PM
i never have but i would love to
patrick2010
December 13th, 2011, 10:28 PM
dude if they are already getting naked they get
boners as well they arent gonna care if u get a boner
so if u wanna do it then go for it
Benbomber
December 15th, 2011, 01:31 AM
Go with it and it wil end up usually as a good experience
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