Confused and miserable

[Ivan09011995]

I'm rili confused, i don't know what's rili wrong with me.
All my life i've never asked a girl out not that i've not liked anyone in that way.
The thing is that i've also met girls i like that obviously likes me too, a lot, but the problem is that i've not been able to ask anybody out and tell them my heart and how i feel for them.
So the question is what do you thing is wrong with me and how can i get over it?

[michael.95]

Your obviously shy and nervous. Try overcome them, not much else I can say, text them and tell them if you can't actually tell them to their face.

[Ivan09011995]

Thanx

[cpr97]

I'm rili confused, i don't know what's rili wrong with me.
All my life i've never asked a girl out not that i've not liked anyone in that way.
The thing is that i've also met girls i like that obviously likes me too, a lot, but the problem is that i've not been able to ask anybody out and tell them my heart and how i feel for them.
So the question is what do you thing is wrong with me and how can i get over it?

i dont think there is anythin wrong with you that cant be easily "fixed" it seems to me like you might be shy or affraid of bein reject or told no... well all i can say is the first time is the hardest n if you know a girl really likes you ask her out n then just go 1 step at a time you dont gotta tell her exactly how you feel right away work up to it... n you cant be affraid of rejection man cuz its gonna happen at some point in life not really if, more like when... everyone gets rejected here n there... but i think you should just ask her out or even just start out by askin her if she wants to hang out with you (not like a date) just as friends n when its just you n her alone you might find it easier to express how you really feel for all you know they may be goin through the same thing / situation dude my best advice would be take small steps n just work your way up the mountain slowly
good luck

[Ivan09011995]

i dont think there is anythin wrong with you that cant be easily "fixed" it seems to me like you might be shy or affraid of bein reject or told no... well all i can say is the first time is the hardest n if you know a girl really likes you ask her out n then just go 1 step at a time you dont gotta tell her exactly how you feel right away work up to it... n you cant be affraid of rejection man cuz its gonna happen at some point in life not really if, more like when... everyone gets rejected here n there... but i think you should just ask her out or even just start out by askin her if she wants to hang out with you (not like a date) just as friends n when its just you n her alone you might find it easier to express how you really feel for all you know they may be goin through the same thing / situation dude my best advice would be take small steps n just work your way up the mountain slowly
good luck

thanx man, u're gr8

[cpr97]

no problem glad i could help n hope it works out for you

[Jstr]

yea nothing is wrong you just need to strik up the question

ps. it's spelled really :D

[cpr97]

yea nothing is wrong you just need to strik up the question

ps. it's spelled really :D

its spelled strike** lol just bustin you dude if your gonna bust balls expect to get em busted lol

[Jupiter]

What's wrong with you? Nothing. That is perfectly normal, if you are looking for normal. Anyway, don't worry man. It happens. You can't tell me you are miserable over girls. They aren't important right now.

[Ivan09011995]

You're just shy. To be honest, I've learned to ask people out myself, but I used to be too shy for that, I would always get a close friend to let slip to the person how I felt about them.. And then they would either come to me with their opinion, or they would ignore it. And if they ignored it, it did count as a rejection. But it was much easier to deal with, having not told the person myself and put myself out there...

All that being said, it IS better to confess your own feelings.. Best of luck!

that helps, but the real problem is i don't find it easy to reveal my feelings to anyone not just the girl

[cpr97]

again dude i think when your ready to open up to your friends bout those feelins you will know it NOBODY else can tell you when your ready i suggest takin small "steps" with the people you feel most comfortable with talkin bout those feelins... also if you have a mutual friend who you trust you could also use that person to your benefit by maybe talkin to them of how to tell the other person how you feel or how the other person may react but like i said i think your biggest thing is your "worried" bout how people will react if you open up to them n share your true feelins