Touching Friend at Sleepover

[SABoy]

Once I slept in the same bed as a friend...so when I thought he was pretty much asleep I tried to feel him up a little out of curiosity. Nothing happened.

Didn't even touch his dick, he seemed to be a very light sleeper. Anyone ever done this before? Did it end badly?

[meg12311]

a bit weird but noot unusal

[SABoy]

Has anything similar ever happened to you?

[Sterling26]

yea u shouldnt touch someone when theyre asleep

[cpr97]

yea u shouldnt touch someone when theyre asleep

gonna have to agree with this... not only is it like border line rape... but its also very risky of ruinin a friendship if the person doesnt like it n wakes up also with the person bein asleep if they do wake up they may "freak out" n start swingin not knowin whats goin on n thinkin they are bein attacked or raped...
i wouldnt recomend tryin to do this again just seems like alot more negative consequences then positive 1s

only way i could MAYBE seein it be alright is if you n your friend have done stuff together like that while you were both awake n aware of what was goin on but even still im not sure if its still a good idea to do when 1 is asleep

And dont take this wrong way im not sayin your weird or a bad person just sayin its prolly not a good idea... and on a positive not it may of just been your hormones goin crazy at the time givin you the urge to do that

[bwdude15]

I've never done it...though i dont want too. I have to agree with Cody and Sterling.

[brianpa]

i was on the receiving end and didnt like it. i woke up and was pissed. wre not friends anymore. i do play arouind with some friends. but we all have agreed it was ok to do. you can tagree when your sleeping

[SABoy]

i was on the receiving end and didnt like it. i woke up and was pissed. wre not friends anymore. i do play arouind with some friends. but we all have agreed it was ok to do. you can tagree when your sleeping

So you guys all just agreed that you'd be okay if you messed around with each other under the sheets?

[cpr97]

So you guys all just agreed that you'd be okay if you messed around with each other under the sheets?

i believe what he was saying is it is fine for him and some friends but he has come to a agreement n discussed it with them when they were awake n aware of what they were doin/sayin n agreein to under the sheets or on top of the sheets or where ever they want to isnt really relavent to the situation or question... n he was asleep 1 night n a friend did to him what your askin is ok to do n what you say youve done to your friend n he was statin he didnt enjoy it n was extremely upset n it ruined the friendship... again as i stated in my first post touchin someone while they are asleep is a very touchy situation n i believe it is border line of considered rape seen as you are touchin / doin things with them without their consent (i could be wrong im not studyin law if i am please someone correct me) but either way whether its legal, illegal or a gray area you have asked for others opinions on the fact n it just doesnt seem morally correct to do so i mean you are pretty much violating the persons personal "bubble" n not givin them the option to say yes or no cuz they are asleep n most likely unaware of whats goin on... im not sure what advice to give you other then if you dont want to talk to your friend(s) bout this to find out how they feel bout you feelin them up while they are asleep n you cant resist the temptation to do so while sleepin in the same bed maybe you could sleep in a different bed then your friend(s) durin sleep overs... again if your friend doesnt give you consent to touch them wether its in a sexual manner or not it is wrong and by consent i mean they are awake n aware when they tell you it is ok for you to do such acts with/to them... and im not sayin you are a bad person for doing this im just sayin i dont believe its right or fair to your friends n we all mistakes but if we learn from our mistakes then there is no issues however if you dont learn from your mistakes then there is a high probability that you will suffer from some sort of consequences just remember that every action has an equal or greater reaction... another thing that could help you get over this is maybe if you get turned on by being in the same bed with a sleeping friend instead of touchin them or feelin them up maybe touch yourself or feel yourself up or pleasure yourself but its important you respect your friends personal space / body and in my opinion the situation you gave you violated that respect... i hope that helps answer your question or gives you a better idea of what your actions could result in if you do this again in the future... i realize our bodys n hormones are changin n doin crazy things right now but that is still deff not an excuse to do things to/with others if they arent aware or comfortble with whats goin on...

[Racer4life25]

i did it once and my friend was hard. but it is a very risky thing to do and if u aren't really close with the person i wouldn't try it

[TaylorMM]

I dont know why you would have to ask, that is such a violation of your friends privacy.

[Can'tHelpIt]

i tried but i only got a look

[jacko98]

I tried it during a camp out in my garden during the summer...... He had woken up then I thought he had went back to sleep.... I tried to feel him thru his sleeping bag. He opened his eyes , i tried to make it look like i was asleep then he siad He had to go. Went to his door later on in the day his mum told me he had gone out...... never seen him all day or rest of the summer holidays.

First day back at school was hellish....... wish I had never tried it :(

[John Marston]

Yeah, don't feel up friends when they're sleeping. Try to get them to experiment IF they're awake and IF you guys are close. And ONLY if you're sure he might be down with it. If he's not, however, he'll probably just think you're curious. Maybe. You gotta be cautious about who you choose to do it with.

[BiBoy5674]

That is wrong man ! it would be different if he was awake.

[jtk339]

what you have done is weird but its up to you and if ur close friends maybe talk to him about it ??

[LuckyLuke]

Uh, quite simple... don't do that.

Invasion of privacy to the highest extent. If you were really his friend, you'd respect him and not try to touch him when he's not conscience.

[Apollo.]

I was kinda in the opposite situation, me and a friend were sharing a sofa after a party and he is a guy I really really like and just cause we were really close and he was like up against me I ended up with a boner:L, he sorta pushed up against me more when I think he felt it and he kept sorta moving his hand over it. I didn't complain I'm not sure If he meant it and if he did it didn't bother me:D so don't worry about it!!

[wattado]

i think its normal to think about doing it because i have but to actually do it is an invasion of someones space.

[Trinity_15]

yeah, stay away from this shiz, it is very dangerous, if you want to touch atleast ask

[charlie3322]

ive done this before and it ended okay but i can beleive that if it had gone badly you can lose a freind and then some. dont do this

[Stronger]

Next time maybe ask him when hes a wake to "fool around"; and no I have never done this, and never will.

[biboikyle]

if you want to experiment, ask him while he's awake!

[bwdude15]

Yeah, ask him next time if you wanna do a little touching...but it's kinda not cool when you're doing it while he's sleeping

[SpiN8]

I tried sucking my friend's dick while he was sleeping. But he woke up before I could move his blanket enough to get under and do my bussiness. Good thing he thought I was just trying to steal his blanket :D

[Gordo]

not very nice thing to do to someone unless you know 100% they'd be okay with it

[TurboDieselBandit]

Well heres just the opposite of what many people have said. Fortunately, or unfortunately depending on how you see it, I did this when I was a lot younger. I never got caught but I was petrified the whole time I was sneaking my hand around. Now I have realized how bad things could have turned out. It really is better to ask because if they want to experiment, then they will say yes and experiment. If they say no, then they definitely wouldn't like it any better if you touched them in there sleep. The reality is, if there were someone that wanted me to try things with them but they touched me while I was asleep, honestly, I'd be pretty weirded out by it and although I might have done things with them before, their unpredictability and mistimed "touchiness" would most likely cause me to stay away from them permanently. Unless it was one of my really close friends and they would have a bunch of explaining to do and it would take a while before I was comfortable around them again.

[amandaalwan]

Itz cool - just curiousity.

[amandaalwan]

I tried sucking my friend's dick while he was sleeping. But he woke up before I could move his blanket enough to get under and do my bussiness. Good thing he thought I was just trying to steal his blanket :D
That's actually kinda zexy!

[Abyssal Echo]

Once I slept in the same bed as a friend...so when I thought he was pretty much asleep I tried to feel him up a little out of curiosity. Nothing happened.

Didn't even touch his dick, he seemed to be a very light sleeper. Anyone ever done this before? Did it end badly?

Ya I tried that once when I was younger.... one time only

cost me a good friend and a few others that he told.

u b better off counting ur blessings that he didn't wake up.

[Human]

unless he wants you too, don't

[ben...]

I touched my friends nipple once when I thought he was asleep. The next morning he asked if I touched his nipple I said yes. He was totally cool with it. I was lucky. Some guys don't handle that stuff well, so I wouldn't do it ever again.

[Dmtuba]

I would ask, or I think it's rape

[ImCoolBeans]

That is absolutely not okay. Touching someone in their sleep is basically molesting them. You are feeling them in a sexual way without their consent or approval - I seriously hope you never consider doing anything like that ever again.

[dryumyum]

nah.. haven't do it yet..i sleep once with my friend but i don't felt that i want to touch him..but the story is ..... January 3 2012 i slept at my friends house when suddenly i feel him move towards me and start to touch me...he thought that i was sleeping though i was only faking...so that i know what he'll do next...he keep on touching me until he touch my dick and then i started to move away from him...

[randomme]

Yes :( but you shouldnt i regret it

[Schizothemia]

nah.. haven't do it yet..i sleep once with my friend but i don't felt that i want to touch him..but the story is ..... January 3 2012 i slept at my friends house when suddenly i feel him move towards me and start to touch me...he thought that i was sleeping though i was only faking...so that i know what he'll do next...he keep on touching me until he touch my dick and then i started to move away from him...

I would say talk to your friend and let them know that you aren't okay with what they were doing.

It is definitely not acceptable to touch someone without their consent. It isn't worth risking and I'm pretty sure charges could be brought on you if the person wanted to. (I personally wouldn't I would just talk to the person about it and let them know, but in legal terms it is molestation.) Besides, it's more fun when they give consent and join in on the fun too!

[KarkatLuv]

oooh, lucky you, that sounds like fun

[Lawrence P]

It can be considered rape if you don't ask for permission before he goes to sleep.

[ImCoolBeans]

oooh, lucky you, that sounds like fun

How is he lucky? He molested somebody...

[NomSan]

How is he lucky? He molested somebody...
Well, it seems to me that he probably would want to be in that position himself.
But yeah, you shouldn't molest people in their sleep(not in the daylight either, haha). If you were good friends, and both of you agreed with it, it would be fine. But as long as you don't have his approval, it's not allowed I'm afraid.

[daniel1009]

Its wrong, you should do it

[joshduder]

Be a little careful..I would have bashed the daylight off such a person...unless if a girl

[ImCoolBeans]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: