Scared about coming out..

[beebs]

Im 13, im a girl and im worried about coming out to my friends. Im bisexual. Thr problem is two of my friends are openly bisexual, and i dont want them to think im trying to "fit" in or anything like that. I know i like girls too as ive had a female partner, and yes it was a sexual relationship. Im just worried what they will say when i tell them, or what they will think...

[TurboDieselBandit]

The first question I think you should ask yourself is "why do you want them to know?/ do they need to know?" Who knows, maybe you just feel like you want to tell someone however, maybe they don't need to know, or maybe they do; its your call. As for coming out, I'm sure you've heard it 1000 times but its still true, if you are SURE your bi and will be for a while, come out and say it. Whats the worst that could happen? really? If they are friends worth having, they will completely accept it and if their not cool with it.... well at least you can weed out the bad apples now rather than in the near future when you really need them. But I bet it will workout better than you imagine; it usually does for most people. How long do you want to hide it? Better yet, why should you have to hide it because of what they think? They cant live for you and certainly cant die for you so be who you are and just live your life.