How Did You Know YOU were ready to have sex?

[SABoy]

I've thought about giving up my virginity for a while...I've always believed that you should be hopelessly in love with someone to have sex with them, but is it like that for you? I know a lot of my friends have had sex and are having sex...and they don't seem to make a huge deal about it.

Have you lost your virginity, and if so was it for emotional or physical reasons? Do you have a hint of regret?

[Trinity_15]

if you really love someone sex is just a bonus... :p you can do it whenever you want but only you will know when really you are

[Joseph1994]

I feel exactly the same as you. Alot of people around me r having sex but i am still a cirgin. Also agree with only having sex with people u truly love. So dont worry u arent the only one.

[SABoy]

Well...then what if love never comes for you?

[james wolf]

A better question is when is sex better for you? If I could have sex now, I would.

[SABoy]

How old are you Mr Wolf? Why would you have sex now...?

[michael.95]

Sex is great at any age as long as your careful, keep that in mind.

[Abyssinian]

I was 14 when I lost mine, it was stupid to do it that young really, but no I don't regret it at all! I wanted to at the time, I was incredibly attracted to the guy I was dating and I liked him alot.

On a different note, don't decide how much you enjoy it after only one time xD first one isn't usually the best.. but yeah after that it tends to become less of a big deal for most people..

[SABoy]

Well...I'm 16, and in my country that makes me sexually legal :)
I just don't know if it's still the right time for me...to actually do it, not to mention all the good girls are either taken or just not that into me...

[BiGuy08]

im about to turn 18 and i still have my v card. i wanna get rid of it but i dont want to waste it. i guess its when you feel ready and earlier this year i wasnt ready and suddenly it hit me that i was ready to have sex. your 16. you have plenty of time. dont worry. :)

[SABoy]

im about to turn 18 and i still have my v card. i wanna get rid of it but i dont want to waste it. i guess its when you feel ready and earlier this year i wasnt ready and suddenly it hit me that i was ready to have sex. your 16. you have plenty of time. dont worry. :)

You're pretty cool BiGuy08 ;-)

[BigG]

I knew when my ex gf and I had been in a great relationship for 2 years-BigG

[cpr97]

i think your the only 1 that truely knows when your ready n trust me when that time comes you will know... who is anyone else to tell you if your body/mind is ready for sex again everyone matures diffrently n if your havin any doubts bout it then id guess your mind aint ready for it....

[SuperYachtDude666]

im 19, and lost my v card the beginning of this year. to a girl i truly love. so it was def. my time

[LuckyLuke]

It really, really depends.

I don't want to lose my virginity to a whore I don't know or care for but at the same time, I wouldn't necessarily have to be dating a person.

There's a few girls I know that, whether or not I was dating them, I'd have sex with them. Not only because they're gorgeous but also because their personalities are truly, truly amazing and I've like them for the longest time.

[digzchickz]

Well I lost mine at 16 to my gf, she was 15 and I don't regret it all, we were/still are incredibly attracted to each other and knew each other for awhile... I mean, I don't think you ever know if you are ready or not, you just get to a point where you are ready to move it to that level, and you just kinda take that leap of faith... and you just have to make sure you do things the right way and responsibly