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Kdude146
November 2nd, 2011, 12:03 PM
So this happened back at the end of September

I was dating a guy who does live 14 hours away from me but we have a real contection with each other we use to talk all the time but now the only way we can talk is on a online game cuz of what happened and I get the feeling he does not like me that much any more cuz of what happend.

So this is the 2nd time it did happen the 1st time it happend was in July when his dad hacked on to his Facebook and saw all of our messages and saw he was bi and was dating me then he told him to dump me and to never to talk to me again then 2 weeks later we started to talk again but we decided to be just friends then we dont talk for a week and I was thinking about killing myself and he was online on msn and I told him he said me saying that made him cry and he said I love you and don't ever want you to hurt yourself and then after he made me feel better he said I miss us and I said me to want to get back together and he said I was hoping you would say that then we lasted 2 months and the only way we could talk was man and skype but he had to use the apps on his cell phone to talk to me cuz of his dad then on our 2 month witch was Sep 28 he does not come on and I had a feeling something happened with his Dad cuz I had a dream about it 2 days before and I got a feeling to go and play this game and its a game I never play and had no idea he played it but I long on and I found him as soon as I logged on and he told me what happend and said its not my falut but I feel that it is and he said that his dad hacked his skype and saw everything and if his dad finds out he talks to me again he will lose everything be cut off and no longer be able to do a program that will help him get his dream job when he is done high school and his dad is now really watching him and he said his dad may have dug stuff up about me cuz he is a background invetageter and he cant really talk to me on skype or msn for 2 or 3 years now we still talk time to time on this game but not that much and I really do feel that its my fault what happend if I did not ask him out again things would still be good with him and his dad and he is the only one for me and last night I found outthat you can read archived messages on facebook and I readed everything we talked about from the time we met to the 1st time his dad found out in July and I know in my heart after reading all that waiting for him is the right thing to do cuz I only want him and I know he loves me still but he kind of acts like he hates me on this game some days and other days he is happy to talk to me but I just hope in 2 or 3 years he will want to be with me again

LuckyLuke
November 2nd, 2011, 04:49 PM
Kevin, I respect you and how much you're committed to this but you need to think about this guy and his future (and your own for that matter).

He's going to lose everything if his dad finds out about you two talking AND YOU'RE STILL doing it? Stop. STOP. There will be other guys and it will be okay. Don't make him lose everything.

It'll hurt, I know, but it has to happen.

Kdude146
November 2nd, 2011, 05:35 PM
Kevin, I respect you and how much you're committed to this but you need to think about this guy and his future (and your own for that matter).

He's going to lose everything if his dad finds out about you two talking AND YOU'RE STILL doing it? Stop. STOP. There will be other guys and it will be okay. Don't make him lose everything.

It'll hurt, I know, but it has to happen.

thanks but he told me I can talk to him on this game and no there won't be he is the one for me and I just can't image my future with out him and I have an idea of what it will look like job wise and I think we will be able to pick up agian once he moves out