Gay, Bi, Pan?? Where is the distinction?

[bugals645]

I cannot understand this dance of seduction we all abide by. well, at the same time i couldn't see things any other way! love and sex is game and part of the game is the chase.. sex involves things like being dominate or submissive and everything in between. are preferences to how we go about are sex is determined by our sexuality. but i find no sure way of knowing what i want or where i fall in the spectrum... i could be straight but with ocd about being gay.. i could be gay but still want to fool around with girls or i could be bi... i am very laid back and not too dominate like other males. i believe i am more submissive when it comes to sex but i don't think i'd want to take it up the butt or anything too often.. idk.. there are so many ways to define this broad topic and i've heard it all..romance..love..sex appeal it's like a big continuum.. i want to know what i want so i can work towards it but learning is half the battle too i guess..

is there anyone who really would only want to be intimate with only one gender?
are you submissive or dominate?
ladies...how do you feel about bi-guys?
does anyone else want to spread a message of sexual ambiguity where we can all just be free to love and express ourselves in any way..then it will peoples true personalities that come out rather than how they play the role of their own gender and label?
anyone else not like the mainstream perception of sex? the freaking game and pride of it all, i mean yes those two factors are bound to be there but if there is so much controversy/stress behind it all that i think we should spend less time arguing and more time fucking each other!!!!:yeah:

[bugals645]

i also get annoyed when i see things on yahoo answers with gay guys saying things like; "I've been gay for years but i think i might want to try and have sex with lady but this is so weird!?!? what girl would want to do this??"

we are just freaking people!! and i feel to say you have no interest in a particular sex can lead to more discrimination! i not saying you can't prefer one! but i think having sex with both sexes and perhaps some hermaphrodites should be a part of life that everyone should experience and apply themselves to learn about. how can gay person look at a girl and not acknowledge the beauty? how can a straight guy not acknowledge the beauty of a man? and of course i ask the same for girls..
is it the personality chemistry that trumps all??????

[RoseyCadaver]

i think we should spend less time arguing and more time fucking each other!!!!:yeah:

Umm....


Many people could probably do something they wouldn't,it just would take some time and thinking about it.I seriously doubt that anyone can be truly 100% hetero or homo.I'm myself am Pan,but most people don't understand that so I say bi.Being a pan sexual just means you're a little bit more open,and you date people more or less on their personality verses their gender.

[AlexTorkin]

I believe that someday every sexuality will be acceptable to everyone. Maybe at some point everyone would have a hint of bi? Then people wouldn't have to worry about their sexuality. Also, people would be more attracted to personality and not just looks. I think that's very genuine.

[band_geek]

Note: I'm pansexual and I have a lotta friends who are bi or gay etc…
In the (sarcastically hilarious) words of one of those friends, "Bi is boy or girl. Pan is anything that moves. xD"

[TrevorTime]

I really don't think I am bisexual though. Granted, I do enjoy looking at a nice pair of titties, but I don't fantasize about having sex with girls. I'm happy being gay, and I don't really mind labeling myself that way. :)

[bugals645]

yes someone does have to and i actually am glad that gay pride speaks so loudly but i almost feel like their flaunting their selves so much that it is creating more social isolation. like say someone is feeling pretty gay, in this society they might think the only way to fit in is to dive into the gay counter culture with all the parades and pride and stuff. granted the pride and parades are good things! because people need to see that people exist! but what i'm trying to spread is we should all make more of an effort to have less standards, less monogamy, just treat each other like a family you know? even if you don't fantasize about girls i'm sure if a cute little honey was all over you it would give you some sort of good feelings! all i'm saying is we are all stifling ourselves spiritually and sexually with all these goddamn labels! or at least viewing the labels like they are specific different breads of people! it's like we all deal with this mind game of sex but are all worried about how who feels about what.. we all have our thoughts and curiosities and they may not always seem the same but we are all in the same world! so lets all dig into our minds and explore all the colors!