mikethepianoman
November 1st, 2011, 05:47 PM
i am in college, and don't have many friends. However, one of the few friends that i do have lives on my floor. I hang out all the time with her etc. However, she is occasionally rude by nature, and says things that bother me and frustrate me and make me mad or upset. However, most of the time, i just try and let things go over my head and not say anything to her if it bothers me. However, lately its been really bothering me, and she said something rude and bossy to me that made me have to walk away and storm off from her. i went to talk to one of my other good friends about this, and she and other people agreed that i should stop being stepped all over and stand up for myself and tell her whats bothering me and tell her she needs to stop and i will not be treated like that. Long story short, i told her, and she didn't take it very well. She basically said that we shouldn't be friends then because thats how she is and shes not going to change at all just to be my friend. This upset me. I feel like i should've sucked it up and not say anything to her, but at the same time, i also feel like she is being annoying and stubborn to not even understand that she is rude a lot of the time and she won't try to work on it, and i feel like i did nothing wrong because all i did was tell her how i was feeling. But i also feel like i shouldn't have said anything also. As of now, i feel like she doesn't want to have anything to do with me anymore, and she said that i'm burning bridges. I didn't even do anything though... i just told her what was bothering me and what she needs to stop doing!!! help!!! :(