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syd1298
November 1st, 2011, 04:54 PM
EDIT: this situation has been sortted now :), me and some of my bigger friends beat the bullies up, got the SD card which has the videos on and attached it to a firework and let the firework of :) thanks for all your help guys!!! :D

There is this group of bullies at my school, the last 2 week, they've really had it in for me. It all started after gym 2 weeks ago when we were all showering. Me and my friend were arguing, he had blocked me on facebook because I had told his gf something he wanted to keep a secret, he hated me. Me + him arguing in the showers I call him a slapper he punches me, right around the face, i fall backwards, right into this boy called Billy and my head slams straight into his shorts and his balls. It obviously hurt him but it also hurt my head, Billy called me a tw*t and said he would get revenge, i walked out of the shower stalls and went and got changed, little did I know then, he was one of the 4 bullies that would make the last week a nightmare :(

This Monday was like any other Monday, to start off with, double maths, then French, then English, then break-time. Break-time was when it happened, the start of all of this sh*t. I was talking to my friends when another boy, Lewis shouted to me and said "oi, you, Miss wants to talk to you inside". So I say bye to my friends and when I go inside I go to go see Miss, I go to her room and she said "you must be mistaken, I defiantly didn't call for you" so I think, Lewis, what a jerk, playing a joke on me like that, I don't even know him for god's sake! On the way back outside, I go to the loo, as I'm about to walk out I feel a sharp, stabbing sensation in my back, I fall to the floor in agony and look behind me and there are 4 boys, Billy, Lewis, Hayden and Sam. One of them had stabbed a pencil into my back. As I'm on the floor I say to them, "WTF was that for you ass-holes" Billy, just kicks me in the head and tells me to get up, I did as I was told, as they are all a hell of a lot bigger than me and pretty much fully matured. I stand up and walk over to one of the cubicles, Sam leaves to go and make sure no-one is coming, and to make a long story short, I ended up with my head down the toilet, in just my boxers. By this time, I was breaking down, as I turn around I realise that Lewis has a camera out, and has recorded it all. No one in my school has seen me with less than trousers or shorts on. No one has seen me in just my underwear before. As they leave, Billy slams his fist into my balls and sais, If you tell anyone, this video is going viral, and shows me the video of me with my head down the toilet in just my boxers.

Then, Tuesday came, I thought that the Monday was the last of it, but I had made a mistake, I had told my best friend Jude and the bullies has obviously picked up on it. Jude said to tell someone, but I told him that I did not want the video going viral/on-line. Even if they did get caught, my life is ruined if that video gets out, Jude hasn't told anyone so I'm happy. after school on Tuesday, I'm walking home from school with Jude, he goes into his house and I walk down a long forest lane to get to my house, im about 1 mile aay from my house when Billy, Lewis and Sam appear out of no where, I ask them to move out the way and I tried running, but i was no good, they caught me, and 10 minutes later I was in the deep of the forest, This time, they said that if they didn't follow their instructions, then the video would go viral. Billy told be to take off my t-shirt, no big deal, I do it all the time. Then I was ordered to lay down on the ground as he hit my back with a twig. It hurt like hell but I dare'nt make a noise. then suddenly Sam and Lewis grab my arms and legs, Billy pulled down my school trousers and spanks me on my butt so hard it was unbelievable, again, like last time, it was recorded. I was now faced with the threat of both video's going viral.

I survived Wednesday with no encounter of the bullies and Thursday too.
I thought they had given up but I was wrong, Last lesson on Friday was swimming, my favourite lesson actually. After swimming, we all have showers. Loads of people asked about my back but I just said I slipped over on some concrete. They were watching me, after I had a shower my coach asked me to go over to him, I did and he, also asked me about my back. I just told him the same sad story of the concrete. Coach left, he went and did some paperwork or some other sh*t in his office which is in the main building, not the swimming pool house. I went in to get changed when suddenly, Sam yanked down my speedo's and slapped me hard across the butt. It was s embarrassing, I don't know how many people actually saw but everyone laughed. I was last out, bad choice, I walked out the door just to be shoved back into the changing rooms. Billy, Sam, Lewis and Hayden, made me change back into my speedo's and have a cold shower. It wasn't too much of a big deal until Hayden decided he would take off my speedo's. I was standing there in tears now. I don't know if there were any videos taken but I feel too intimidated now to tell anyone. I have survived Monday and Today but I don't know about tommorow, I know you will all tell me to tell someone but that's one thing I cant do, if any of those videos or pictures goes on the internet or falls into the wrong hands, my life will be ruined. I just need some advice on how to deal with these bullies. Please only serious answers because this is wrecking my life at the moment. I wouldn't kill myself or anything like that. But I just need to know so Ican sort it out for once and for all. Thank you

smithjohn2
November 1st, 2011, 05:39 PM
Get the hell out of there! Tell the police! I would submit this for the police to view, and tell them to mark it as anonymous!

logan fields
November 1st, 2011, 06:20 PM
im not smart about stuff like this syd but i do know about bullie and they are creeps real creeps. i know if you tell anyone that it usually gets worse and i know because i get bullied to but with me its just words and i can live with that but the stuff they are doing to you is not legal where i live and i bet its not legal where you live either so yea i would tell the police or your parents or the coach or someone that will help you. i hate what is happening to you because i know how it feels and all bullies are jerks and its always the big doofs that like being bullies. syd please tell someone and get some help.

ImCoolBeans
November 1st, 2011, 11:38 PM
This has gone on for way too long. You need someone to intervene; and to be honest I think you should tell your parents and have the police/school involved immediately. That is totally unacceptable and should not be happening to you. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. But as I said, get superiors involved. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask for help.

TommyX
November 2nd, 2011, 07:18 AM
Hey Syd,
I've personally experienced bulling in my life,,and Ill tell you to overcome it.
Bullies are cowards. They are only bullying because they have been bullied before and it is their only way of feeling big.

They are using fear to prevent you from telling someone. Using that video as a leverage. The reason they are using fear, is because they are experiencing fear themselves- the fear of getting caught; leading to their expulsion from school, disregard in society and even jail in some instances. And I kid you not they are sweating bullets at night thinking about it. The only thing stopping them from their fate is by blackmail. One video.-You can use this to your advantage.

You can trust me on this, If you tell a school superior everything will be alright and your life will turn out normal. If you tell a school teacher, they will get expelled, or at least suspended with their benefits taken away; they could even go to jail. Remember, that is their fear, use it against them; you are strong enough to do it.
Because the moment they threaten you again, they are going down a road of misery ; much more than you felt.
They are not going to put any video out because the moment they do; their life is ruined. You think your gonna get embarrassed? They have it much worse.

I know you don't want to tell anyone because of fear. Use this as your weapon, not your weakness. Overcome this fear and unleash it against your oppressors; revenge can't be any sweeter :). No more of them to see in your life, your life back to normal. Do it, they can't send the video out; they have too much to lose- they are just trying to scare you; they are afraid, why else would they be doing it? If you do nothing it will keep on going and going, that is what THEY want, not you. (you don't want this to keep going do you?). You are doing what they want them to do, now its your turn to change this, and screw them over :D. Do the right thing, JUST TELL SOMEONE TRUST BE IVE BEEN TROUGH THIS. Its gonna be just fine:)

I Believe in you mate, good luck It''ll be so worth it. Maybe one day youll be just like me, teaching someone to overcome the same obstacle.

~Tom

trooneh
November 2nd, 2011, 08:04 AM
This has gone on for way too long. You need someone to intervene; and to be honest I think you should tell your parents and have the police/school involved immediately. That is totally unacceptable and should not be happening to you. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. But as I said, get superiors involved. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask for help.

Like Mike said, you have to report them. Syd, there's no guarantee that they won't post the videos on the internet regardless. However, you need to get the police involved. Physical abuse like this is not only wrong, it's illegal. They enjoy their power over you, break that power. Report them.

syd1298
November 2nd, 2011, 11:28 AM
I appreciate the help guys but you all are saying the same thing, tell someone and you are all telling me to do what I said I'm not going to do because my life will be ruined, I'm moving back to Australia soon but if that video goes out or I tell anyone it will be on the news, and I garuntee the video will be too. If my new friends in Australia see it on the news then they wil question me about it and it will cause me prblems, but at the moment the situations geting worse and I'm not bieng hard or anything but I seriously cant tell any "superior about this. They don't care if they go to prison or anything, they will lose nothing. I will.

James_
November 2nd, 2011, 12:55 PM
You have to tell your parents about that, then go tell the police.. I'd like to help but I live far away from you (Poland).

rider15
November 2nd, 2011, 01:13 PM
man, i feel so sorry for you; try to talk to your parents abut it? or guessing it isnt possible to sort it out with them>?

Sterling26
November 2nd, 2011, 05:21 PM
If you tell a school superior everything will be alright and your life will turn out normal. If you tell a school teacher, they will get expelled, or at least suspended with their benefits taken away; they could even go to jail. Remember, that is their fear, use it against them; you are strong enough to do it.
Because the moment they threaten you again, they are going down a road of misery ; much more than you felt.
They are not going to put any video out because the moment they do; their life is ruined. You think your gonna get embarrassed? They have it much worse.

I know you don't want to tell anyone because of fear. Use this as your weapon, not your weakness. Overcome this fear and unleash it against your oppressors; revenge can't be any sweeter :). No more of them to see in your life, your life back to normal. Do it, they can't send the video out; they have too much to lose- they are just trying to scare you; they are afraid, why else would they be doing it? If you do nothing it will keep on going and going, that is what THEY want, not you. (you don't want this to keep going do you?). You are doing what they want them to do, now its your turn to change this, and screw them over :D.

DUDE SYD listen to this guy he's completely right, no way in hell they will ever post the video, and even if they did the odds of someone in australia seeing it are pretty damn unlikely. ur going to get busted either way if someone sees your injuries, and the one thing that will make the bullies post the video is out of fun that they're getting away with it, not when they realize they're in trouble, then they'll stop cold.

Thanatos
November 2nd, 2011, 07:28 PM
Bullying is bullying, but this is definitely far beyond that. What you have reached is a level of sexual and physical harassment beyond the name calling and shoving around that normal middle-schoolers or high-schoolers go through. I know you don't want to tell someone and make this into a big deal, but it needs to be done.

Firstly, those videos would not be posted online, and if they were the fact of what they are would immediately get them removed from just about any site. Second, while the story might seem big, it probably won't turn into an international news story. And Third even if somehow the videos went viral, its you being bullied, people aren't going to laugh at it, people are going to feel bad and ashamed of what those kids did.

Trust me man, suffering through this in order to avoid an unlikely yet possible embarrassing situation isn't worth it. Why let them hurt you because they 'might' show someone you in your boxers?

blackpo
November 2nd, 2011, 07:40 PM
This is terrible, sad, and just wrong on so many levels...

Syd,
I know you want to keep this to yourself but here is the thing with the strange and weird bullies they wont stop until they are punished in ways that are worse than what they did to you... In your school go to your principle/ headmaster and tell him that you have a suspicion that those four kids have either pornographic videos or abusive videos on the devise that they used on you. Suggest that they need to be searched for whatever they used because they were bragging to you about beating up a poor kid and they showed you a video of it... When they get searched the principle/ headmaster will be forced to watch the videos and when he see the seriousness of the situation he has to take action be law and contact the authorities of the law/ land. If the kids/ bullies are above the legal age they will go to jail... I hope this is helpful to you...keep us posted

The pain you feel now is making you stronger with each day and for your instinct to stay strong I applaud you...Know that here on http://www.virtualteen.org is a safe haven for you your pain becomes ours too...

Let the gods of the world stay with you and let them uplift you to a founding of safety that will be blessed upon you...

Wakesetter03
November 2nd, 2011, 08:41 PM
Excuse the French but f*ck. That is just obscene!
I see where you're coming from mate, I really do. But this isn't bullying, this is assault. And fair enough, you're moving away soon. But think about it this way, if you leave someone else will take your place. If you go straight to the police, they will deal with it. They will take the videos off the guys, they will have a search throughout the internet to see if it has been put up, and then they will get charged, but admittedly it won't be much unless they've offended before.
You have the chance to fix this, and it's horrible what they're doing to you, but how would you feel going to Aus and hearing about some other kid who was bullied by these dickheads, but couldn't take it and ended up killing themself or something?
At the end of the day it's your decision, and no one can make it for you. But if I were you, and judging from the others here, if everyone else was you, it would be straight to the police.
Just something to think about, I'm sorry you have to go through this :(

Foamy
November 4th, 2011, 08:34 PM
Damn tell someone. Dont just be a sitting duck. Who cares if they see? That's abuse right there, and it needs to be reported. Screw viral video threats. If you don't do something, nobody will, and then youre helpless.

Quick_Sylver
November 4th, 2011, 08:44 PM
THe video goes viral and the police know about it, they can and will remove it as it is evidence.

Go to the police. Tell them.

mikeywrenn
November 4th, 2011, 08:55 PM
You live in England? God damn, if these kids live close to me...

As previously stated, get this to the police. If they upload that video then they are breaking a severely large amount of laws (around eight).

Teencuriosity
November 8th, 2011, 12:51 AM
Call the f*cking cops they can go to jail for that.

Ace007
November 13th, 2011, 05:12 AM
Hey Syd I would tell your dad and mom .....if I was yu.......thats sad news....or moved back here.....