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Shenron
October 31st, 2011, 10:47 PM
So, I know that stories are not really something that we are supposed to share but I need some help with this situation. I will try to share as few details as possible.
So a few days ago a friend stayed over at my house. We played games and watched a movie until I fell asleep. Now, let me back up a second. For a while now this friend has been wanting to experiment with me. That night we actually did. Now, I have been trying to talk him since then and he has not been speaking to me. I know this could be nothing but I am just paranoid I guess. Does anyone have any idea what could be behind this?
Sorry if this is in the wrong place, was not quite sure where to put it.
nameless12
November 1st, 2011, 12:58 AM
well he could either be weirded out for what he did or regret all those stuff, or it could just be that he just dosent want to talk alot. i think you should just ask him why he isnt talking too much.
LuckyLuke
November 1st, 2011, 04:40 AM
Sadly, experimenting tends to lead to broken friendships, or so I've heard.
I'd consider trying to heal your relationship with him as soon as possible and ask him why he's not talking to you.
blackpo
November 1st, 2011, 04:53 AM
sadly
this could've happened to any one :(
you could ask him why he is not talking, put a break between you two for a while and go and spend time with your next closest friend till the problem blows over...
Hope this helps and Good Luck
Shenron
November 1st, 2011, 10:23 AM
Thanks for the replies. I talked to him at school today and he acted normally. He is talking to me at school, but he is not responding to me outside of school.
logan fields
November 1st, 2011, 06:29 PM
see thats why im afraid to ever experiment with anyone because maybe they will hate me after that or maybe they will get embarased and wont want to talk anymore and who needs that drama. im not saying thats why happened but maybe idk
Sterling26
November 1st, 2011, 06:31 PM
if its nothing u'll know soon, but try to talk to him about anything and if hes cold to u then there's an issue, but dont overreact til u know wats going on
Jupiter
November 1st, 2011, 07:14 PM
Hey, Logan, Chris, sorry that happened. You know what? Things will get better. If they ditch you as a friend, then their loss.
AlexTorkin
November 1st, 2011, 07:28 PM
Hmmm... if it was he who initially wanted to experiment with you, I question why he'd stop talking to you outside of school. But I guess if things are normal at school, try not to worry too much.
Shenron
November 2nd, 2011, 09:55 PM
Ok, so he has started talking to me outside of school now, but he says he doesn't want to stay at my house now. Before now he has wanted to stay every weekend. I'm not sure if he is trying to avoid us doing something again or if he just doesn't want to stay over.
LuckyLuke
November 3rd, 2011, 12:39 PM
Ok, so he has started talking to me outside of school now, but he says he doesn't want to stay at my house now. Before now he has wanted to stay every weekend. I'm not sure if he is trying to avoid us doing something again or if he just doesn't want to stay over.
State to him, in your owns words but still very clearly, "Listen dude, if you don't want to do anything again that's totally fine but don't make it weird when it doesn't have to be. It's not worth losing a friendship over this."
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