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samsmith
October 31st, 2011, 10:36 PM
Ok so i've got a really good friend and recently i've slept at his house watching movies etc having sleepovers infact im there now, ok so a few hours ago he said he used to be bi and gave a silly reason saying he wasnt anymore because they were greedy wanting both sexes, i allready knew this but it seemed weird him saying it to me. he has a girlfriend at the moment and im friends with her too.
me and him mess around and are open about sexual stuff but never about same sex stuff and allways talk about different girls etc but tonight im so sure he came onto me, i dont think im allowed to say how but im sure intent was there, he was so close to me and saying certain things etc, i wanted to turn my head and kiss him but i was so scared of what might happen and what if it was a joke, im so awkward at times like that, i know what i want to do but i never can do it phyiscally ;S.
im like 95% sure he was coming on to me and im just not sure what to do, any advice on how to handle it?


P.S sorry if its too long and in the wrong section.

Fruit_Tart.
November 1st, 2011, 12:38 AM
Just ask him how he feels or what he thinks about other boys.
Have you told him you're attracted to guys too? (I'm not sure if you are, so sorry if I got it all wrong.)
As him if he's had any fantasies about guys, since he's the one who brought up that he "used to be" bi.
Just taking a chance and kissing him might work, too, but your friendship might go the wrong way if he takes it wrong.
I'm not sure what else can help but I wish you the best of luck. :)

samsmith
November 1st, 2011, 02:45 AM
im gonna wait a few days and see how he is with me, i'll try steer the convo towards what happens, he said some stuff bluntly but i couldn't tell if he was being serious or not, and see what his response is.
:S