am i bi?

[cpr97]

ok im 13 gonna be 14 next month n been really confused lately i have a gf n yea i have sex with her n like it alot n i like her alot but i have also played around with friends that are boys (jerkin off n oraly) n it was kinda cool but i wouldnt ever date a boy or wanna do butt sex or even kiss a boy. i asked a few older friends they said its prolly just a stage im goin through or im "bedroom bi" cuz its just like playin around n havin fun but nothin outside the bedroom like datin or anything.
is this normal? does it mean im bi?

[ryantombs]

maybe bi curious if anything...

[cody99666]

Ehh, I'd have to say you are probably just curious,Considering your age alot of people are like that around your age no worries.

[syd1298]

no no your not bi i dont think, it can only come from yu, your eart holds the answer. Or ask buddah to tell you ;)

[cpr97]

ok cool thanks guys n do you think i should tell my gf bout it or would she get upset

[Foamy]

I wouldn't tell her anything. But you seem to be one curious person there.

[Foamy]

You have sex at 13?

I was about to say.....

[ryantombs]

i agree with the sex but wat ever floats youur boat there... but anyways i mean ehh my ex gf told me she was bi curious as in like she would hook up with girls or threesome but nvr relationship... what ya know she cheated on me and then left me for a girl lol... sorry lil rant
but i mean i guess if yur really close to her... we were extremely close so i didnt mind it that much untill well yea....
my advice tho if you do tell her DONT MAKE ANY DAMN PROMISES dont go oh honey i love you and i will nvr leave you for a guy (if you say that make sure yu say and girl)
jus dont lie bro if you tell her saves many head aches in the end

[Sterling26]

you're bi-curious, horny, and WAY TOO YOUNG to be having sex, i don't care what anyone else says about its your choice you're not even in high school yet ma dude

[Haleyzmont]

Thats not bi its curious cause your not willing to have acctual sexual intercourse with another male

[cpr97]

you're bi-curious, horny, and WAY TOO YOUNG to be having sex, i don't care what anyone else says about its your choice you're not even in high school yet ma dude

actually im a freshman in highschool this year n turnin 14 end of nov

n thanx people for the advice though i wasnt lookin to get screamed at for havin sex at 13 but whatever everyones entitled to a opinion

[Fruit_Tart.]

definately normal for your age. sex is fine, just be safe k? :) hahaha.
if you don't like the fact of being together with a boy, then i say you're not really bi but just curious of other guys. experimenting is very normal for everyone, but again be safe and be protected *cough* condoms *cough*. :P

[cpr97]

always dude i dont want no stds or kids thanks

[Fruit_Tart.]

always dude i dont want no stds or kids thanks
Hahaha. Okay. I don't think anyone does, but i was just making sure you didn't either.
Fool around though, no shame in that unless people say shit. You're human and we all have different desires.

[cpr97]

thanks dude

[nameless12]

you not bi, you just curious ;), if you were bi you would want to kiss or have something else than oral or other things with a guy like dating so no, your not bi :)

[cpr97]

ok cool i just wasnt sure

[Trinity_15]

I'm curious like you but I would do anything except for date a gay or have anal.. everything else, sure. its because were teens and figuring our selves out. its 100% normal :)

[cpr97]

cool that makes me feel better i always get really horny when im doin stuff with boys but then afterwards its like i feel guilty but i think its more that im scared of other boys findin out n what they will say or think guess im just over reactin all together lol

[Carlyle]

Well, sex at that age is a little young even if your careful... I doubt it, you could just be curious, or be going through a stage. It may or may not pass in due time.

[jockeyboy97]

No your not bi,just curious. I also have a girlfriend that I'm crazy about but I do fool around with guys doing oral and JO. I only do it with my real best friend and a cousin or a few times with some other guys at a sleep over. Its fun and we all enjoy and no one is being forced. So your ok, its just natural fun. I think there are more guys that fool around with guys but deny it for not wanting to be made fun of.

[Racer4life25]

cool that makes me feel better i always get really horny when im doin stuff with boys but then afterwards its like i feel guilty but i think its more that im scared of other boys findin out n what they will say or think guess im just over reactin all together lol

don't worry bro I feel the same way!!

[cpr97]

No your not bi,just curious. I also have a girlfriend that I'm crazy about but I do fool around with guys doing oral and JO. I only do it with my real best friend and a cousin or a few times with some other guys at a sleep over. Its fun and we all enjoy and no one is being forced. So your ok, its just natural fun. I think there are more guys that fool around with guys but deny it for not wanting to be made fun of.
cool yea thats like exactly how it is we (boys) just do it cuz it feels good n we get off no like "i love you" emotional stuff

don't worry bro I feel the same way!!

ok cool...

thanx both of you

[Abyssinian]

I judge being truly bi as emotional attractions to both sexes.. You seem to be more curious =) Good luck though!

[libra210]

Its possible.

[danny_12]

yea you're not bi.. what it is is a psychological thing which makes you stay with something thats comfortable and fun to you. You'll prob grow out of it and stick to girls. Try using some reverse psych on your gf by asking her vaguely what she thinks about that stuff, maybe tell alittle white lie about a friend who is in the exact position and read her reaction. Good Luck!

[cpr97]

yea you're not bi.. what it is is a psychological thing which makes you stay with something thats comfortable and fun to you. You'll prob grow out of it and stick to girls. Try using some reverse psych on your gf by asking her vaguely what she thinks about that stuff, maybe tell alittle white lie about a friend who is in the exact position and read her reaction. Good Luck!

thanx mehh i will give that a shot thanx again

[NHSoccerjock]

no your not bi.. just curious. i dont even think ur "bedroom bi" cuz u dont wanna do anal.... its perfectly normal to jerk off with ur friends and experiment orally.. doesnt mean ur gay or bi. just means ur horny! :)

[phantomnull]

i dont even think ur "bedroom bi" cuz u dont wanna do anal....

Even if he was doing anal, that still doesn't make someone gay. Guys have a p-spot like girls have a g-spot. Our p-spot is the prostate and the best way to get to it is anally. You can prevent prostate cancer by performing prostate massages.

[cpr97]

thanx guys

[acurasrock]

Jerking off, experimenting, and/or having thoughts about doing things with a guy friend is completely normal at 13/14, you got to be thinking a million different things, even having a gf and all, your mind constantly needs to explore new things and it gets kind of crazy sometimes, but I don't think you are bi-sexual and there's no need to tell your GF about it, she may take it the wrong way. Some things are better left unsaid if you know what I mean.

[Stronger]

You have sex at 13?

Exactly what I was thinking and to the OP its probably just a stage

[itsthat0n3kid]

you know, i dont see why people are getting all pissy about you having sex at 13, i did it at that age also, i wore a condom, it was fun, we broke up but we are still really close. as long aas your being safe i dont see the problem.
and i think your probably just curious. i think everyone is at one point or another. :P
good luck :)
chris

[cpr97]

you know, i dont see why people are getting all pissy about you having sex at 13, i did it at that age also, i wore a condom, it was fun, we broke up but we are still really close. as long aas your being safe i dont see the problem.
and i think your probably just curious. i think everyone is at one point or another. :P
good luck :)
chris

yea my brother said they are just jealous that they arent havin or didnt have sex at 13 but either way idk how anyone on here that dont know me can say im to young to have sex or whatever i just dont dont pay attention to them lol

[Can'tHelpIt]

I'm 13 and I have not had sex. No one at my school has had sex (except for one girl she got pregnant but she transfered here) but I'm still in the 8th grade. I'm waiting until I'm AT LEAST 15 or 16 b/c I'm a late bloomer so I'm a bit under average. :P (and idk if there is any other gays at my school but there is this one guy who I would do ya know when I'm 15 or 16)

[cpr97]

I'm 13 and I have not had sex. No one at my school has had sex (except for one girl she got pregnant but she transfered here) but I'm still in the 8th grade. I'm waiting until I'm AT LEAST 15 or 16 b/c I'm a late bloomer so I'm a bit under average. :P (and idk if

n thats perfectly fine n totally your choice but lots of people on here like to tell everyone else what age they should be havin sex at but dude trust me when your ready you will know it dont let anyone tell you any differently

[IanB]

yeah no bi

[Antagonist]

Experimental is what I think. I posed this question to myself last year, but i turned out bi because i had gay sex, got a boyfreind, then liked who i was. Let it play out a little more, then ask yourself this again.

-Noah

[itsthat0n3kid]

you know, i dont see why people are getting all pissy about you having sex at 13, i did it at that age also, i wore a condom, it was fun, we broke up but we are still really close. as long aas your being safe i dont see the problem.
and i think your probably just curious. i think everyone is at one point or another. :P
good luck :)
chris

i still talk to that girl all the time.
she is like my best friend.

[tetoo123]

Your only bi if you have physical and emotional attraction to both genders, from what it sounds like your straight but very curious not bi though.

[Skyn Boy]

I'm just curious...how did you get condoms at such a young age? Did you just buy them yourself? That is ballsy because when I was 13 I didn't even know I could get condoms.

[Evancosta]

Your just curious. But bedroom bi sounds fitting.

[cpr97]

I'm just curious...how did you get condoms at such a young age? Did you just buy them yourself? That is ballsy because when I was 13 I didn't even know I could get condoms.

helps to have an older brother

[Frankie66]

I would say just curious but no bi

[disguy15324]

Well this is a hard question.. in reality you are probably just curious since you can't see yourself doing any of the dating and such with guys. You may be bi, or like your friends said "bedroom bi".

[munzy5581]

your prob going through a stage where your trying to find out what you like as a guy girls go through the same stuff go with whatever your heart feels if you like girls then go with girls if you like guys then go with guys

[mynameisJ]

You are in the curious stage my friend :-)

[blondieboy]

yeah, sounds lyk me...i totally get wat ur sayin

[CodyFox13]

Hey Bro, not big deal having sex with ur GF, and not, u r not BI. Just calm down. Stay focus on her. She is not ready 2 receive this news...my opinion, be quiet.

[Human]

curious?