this guy... helllppp!!

[vegangurl03]

so there's this guy who i really like. he's quiet, though. we only have one class together and he's never around at lunch and stuff, so we don't talk all that often. also, i'm quiet too, so our conversations can be kind of short and awkward and math-related (only class i have with him). so... million dollar question. how do i know if this guy likes me keeping in mind we're both quiet?? what can i do to talk to him more without seeming like a creeper? help would be much appreciated. merci :P

[Foamy]

Start a conversation and take it from there.

[vegangurl03]

Start a conversation and take it from there.

i can't!!! i get even quieter around him. i can't ever find anything to say and end up feeling like an idiot. lol.

[Foamy]

Start a math conversation then ask if you'd like to talk about something else. Music, life, friends, sports, anything.

[vegangurl03]

okay. OKAY. how do i know if he's interested or whatever though?? cause we do talk a little bit.

[Sogeking]

Does he show anything in his character that he's interested in? ex. he's wearing a shirt about a band or tv show etc.. You can point it out, ask him about it, and see if the convo will fly from there.

[Bob_]

Try Facebook if you both have one. Or get his # and text him some time. It'll ease into it, IMO.

[vegangurl03]

mkay. he asked me if i was goin to their soccer game this week. i dunno if that means anything. but still. :P

[Bob_]

Chyeaah it does! He wants you to be there to support him. By the sound of it, you're good.

[Fruit_Tart.]

Yeah! See if you can go to the game and tell him that you'll be there to cheer him on. I'm sure he won't mind it or think it's stalker-ish because it's a school function. :P
Keep talking to him on a daily basis about math or any field your comfortable talking in.
Best of luck hun. :)

[vegangurl03]

yeah! See if you can go to the game and tell him that you'll be there to cheer him on. I'm sure he won't mind it or think it's stalker-ish because it's a school function. :p
keep talking to him on a daily basis about math or any field your comfortable talking in.
Best of luck hun. :)

thank you m'dears :)

[Sterling26]

yea stalk him on facebook lol that always works

[paradox]

He obviously likes soccer so ask how his practice went, what kinds of drills they do. Also, if you're nervous, odds are he's nervous. So I suggest you start talking about something you like (music for example) and see what his reaction is. Don't worry I'd he likes the same thing or not!!!!! This is part of getting to know him. If you like rap but he doesn't then oh well, you learned he doesn't like rap, that's better than another void of awkward silence, right? Thomas Edison said he didn't fail at inventing the lightbulb a hundred times, he learned 100 ways not to make a lightbulb. If he hadn't learned from failure instead of giving up, this forum, let alone this computer, may not have ever existed!

[vegangurl03]

yea stalk him on facebook lol that always works

haha. the problem is i don't have a facebook :/ maybe i should get one....

[vegangurl03]

my friend says she sees him watching me sometimes. and i catch him lookin at me too. i don't know if he thinks i'm a creeper or if he's just like zoning out or if that means anything. haha. we're both so awkward :P

[Abyssinian]

Go from the soccer conversation to "so what else are you interested in outside of school?"

It sounds like he likes you, but in what capacity is not made clear, you'll need to talk to him abit more to find out I think =)

[paradox]

you could just try flat-out asking if he wants to go to the movies. Change it up a little, there's no written law that says the guy ALWAYS has to do the asking. Confidence is contagious, if you become more open, he'll follow suite.

[MjamesC]

Go up and talk to him! Chances are he is probably interested in you too.

[Bob_]

my friend says she sees him watching me sometimes. and i catch him lookin at me too. i don't know if he thinks i'm a creeper or if he's just like zoning out or if that means anything. haha. we're both so awkward :P

Yes, I'm willing to bet he likes you by all the signs. And yeah, get a facebook, they're quite beneficial for your social life. It just seems like he feels the same as you, so you might as well try being a little flirty. =P

[shirleykings]

So you should have a facebook first. it's useful.

[vegangurl03]

okay. i can do that. i'm still trying to figure out if he likes me though. i was drawing in math class and my best friend comes over and is like "WOAH THAT'S SO GOOD!!!!" so of course everyone comes over to see and they're all looking through my sketchbook on the desk. and he's sitting across from me just looking at it and kind of smiling. he draws too. i haven't seen his stuff but everyone says he's amazing. maybe i should talk about that. i have no idea where this is going but it's good to get this out of my system. and he's really quiet and nice and interesting. what are the signs a guy like this likes you?!?! okay i'm done now... :D